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Originally Posted by ape descendant
Solumina, an open marriage, like any poly sort of relationship can be difficult. It seems that the creepers really do come out and friends can certainly show a side of themselves that would have otherwise been quietly controlled or strangled.
It seems when the prospect of sex comes up, some people haven't really learned any sort of manners or don't bother to think things through.
I wish you luck with your situation. If you want or need to talk feel free to PM me.
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They should teach people sex etiquette in sex ed class. This is where the clit is, remember it, and also remember, no one owes you sex.
Sol, if he's that much of a creep (does he do that to his single girl friends?) then he ain't no friend anyway. That smacks of "Nice Guy" behavior and what, is your friendship worth nothing because you won't sleep with him?
Its nothing that you can really watch, its just that a lot of men are only willing to celebrate female sexuality up until the point you say no.