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I'm going to say something left field... Not everyone has goth friends, and intelligent engagement is definitely not limited to goths.
It can be distancing if someone is dressed to the nines and emanating tension because they expect to be judged, and it may be that people need to see more of who you are behind the spookiness.
Perhaps dress slightly more casual and attend an interest group which gives you something to talk about with the others?
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