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Grausamkeit · 11-23-2011, 09:34 PM

Deadly, hun, you realize that you're probably not going to be able to help her, right?

I don't like dealing with alcoholics and it's a deal-breaker if I find out someone I'm into is one.

My 'best friend'(who I have not talked to in going on more than two years) quit talking to me and hanging out with me when I cut down and eventually stopped drinking with her all the time. I dated an alcoholic that had similar behavior patterns to your GF. I understand being in love and wanting to help. Most of the time it's not enough. They will see you as the enemy no matter how non-blaming or non-confrontational you try to be.

11-23-2011, 09:34 PM	#6
Grausamkeit Join Date: May 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 2,271	Deadly, hun, you realize that you're probably not going to be able to help her, right? I don't like dealing with alcoholics and it's a deal-breaker if I find out someone I'm into is one. My 'best friend'(who I have not talked to in going on more than two years) quit talking to me and hanging out with me when I cut down and eventually stopped drinking with her all the time. I dated an alcoholic that had similar behavior patterns to your GF. I understand being in love and wanting to help. Most of the time it's not enough. They will see you as the enemy no matter how non-blaming or non-confrontational you try to be. __________________ I'd rather label myself than have a million other people do it for me. ~ Pathogen ...I've been accused of folly by a fool. ~Antigone