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Old 04-24-2012, 04:19 PM   #14
Angelic Dissonance2
 
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One of the first things I tell people is that it's wrong how society has us programmed to think it's selfish to put themselves first. If you don't put yourself first, ...no one will. It's as simple as that. Part of being self-sufficient is self-love. Hell, part of life. You just have to look out for yourself first and foremost, and while being as careful as possible with other people's feelings, not letting them limit your survival ability. Sometimes you hurt people. It's a part of life. But just as often (or likely, far more) people hurt you. They have to learn to cope, just as you have.

Don't feel bad for doing something if it was good for you. They'll move on.

Still, maybe all it needs is apology. I'm not the one to say for sure, but I think with tact the right time will make itself certain, and maybe you won't even have to say anything. As The Sister's said,

"...The real truth is never spoken".
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