[JCC]

Originally Posted by Amunet

from experience it could mean that he senses you fancy him, and maybe he's not ready for that, he could not want to hurt you which is why he's being vague. If you really want to find out, I find the best way is to confront a situation head on. Not desperate like, just a conversation. Tell him, "you know, I really think we connect on a level, and I think that if you feel the same maybe we should get together. I would love to learn more about you, and I'm willing to take that chance at it not working out, but only if that's something you're comfortable with..."
in your own words of course. Its worked for me in the past, and actually even if it didn't work out I got a friend out of it.

Good luck hun!

Jesus, don't do that. Giving a guy "the talk" is bad enough without being like "I really think we connect on a level".