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Not necessarily...
I have quite a few large friends. I am not about to be brutally honest and say 'you look unattractive, I think you should go home and change'
I am also not going to say 'lets go to the gym. right now!'
...It isn't my place. Sometimes in a store you may have 2 options and you pick the more flattering option but ...they most likely know they are a little chubby or they have really packed the weight on...
I will just opt for a salad and hope they order that too instead of fries and a milkshake.
Being a good friend doesn't always mean telling people what their problems really are. I like to think they are smart enough to know some of them - and you just need to support them if they are worth it and give something back to you.
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