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Originally Posted by Tumor
Is your position really so weak that you have to demand a method on bringing his idea to fruition rather than discussing the merits of his idea? Whether or not he has an idea how to do such a thing is completely beside the point. Knowing how to make it happen (or not knowing, for that matter) does not make his ideas good or bad.
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We all fucking AGREE THAT PEOPLE SHOULD TALK BEFORE A DECISION IS REACHED and that the man SHOULD VOICE HIS OPINION. We are simply saying that there is no way to legally guarantee that the man will be able to give his opinion without giving him veto power.
In a perfect world I would be more than happy to remove the man's responsibility to pay child support if he is in favor of having the child aborted but I know that there are a lot of men who would simply say that they wanted an abortion in order to avoid child support, a better system needs to be put in place before something like that would be feasible.