Hi Tam,
have you ever heard of Portland black lipstick company? They use good ingredients and they're not too expensive at all. I recommend BB cream (it's an asian cream that is moisturizer with a built in foundation sorta) and on top of that translucent powder. I use phantom face powder by Portland BL
http://www.etsy.com/listing/71174883...?ref=related-6
I really like it, and it doesn't make my face feel gross, and doesn't make me break out. Portland BL is mainly known for their lipsticks but due to the fact that they don't shove all these chemicals in their makeups I like to use their other stuff, too.
There's no "best goth makeup" out there, you just have to do what's best for you. I hope that helped.