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Someone whom listens to hardcore death music 0 0%
Someone whom is consumed by thoughts of death and a morbid attitude 9 6.82%
Someone whom is exclusive and shy, often adorned in black contrasted with white 3 2.27%
A satanist or someone fixated upon evilistic rituals 2 1.52%
Someone in complete contrast to Christianity 1 0.76%
"Goth" is relative, and based upon each individual persons experiences and own perspectives 98 74.24%
My cats breath smells like catfood 19 14.39%
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Old 10-24-2003, 07:40 PM   #1
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"Goth"

Hey everyone. Well, firstly, this topic is what I would wish to be specific to the definition of "goth." I will, however, start with a hopefully brief (and hopefully I won't pull a Polonious by over-talking..) description of myself, wherein I will continue to argue or question the definition of "goth".

Ok so, me.. hmm.. Well, I am 17 and about 6'0, I'm semi-toned muscle wise, but considerably skinny (my "tonnedness" is parallel to my "skinniness"). Uhm, I generally enjoy roleplaying things and the like, am not really interested in satanism whatsoever, but generally enjoy occultism and the like (vampires, dragons/ D&D type stuffish, and various mythologies - yea, that's not really occultism, but work with me here !). I currently reside in Saskatchewan, Canada and am very proud of my nation, though the province is merely acceptable. I don't really concider myself a "goth" whatsoever, in part because I don't entirely understand the meaning of such a label, but also because I don't really believe I fit any of the "perspectives" or "generalizations" made about, or originating around, the title "goth." I don't dress in black clothes (though I used to moreso, in fact in grade 9 I remember a time when some people walked by and refused to ask me something because they thought I was creepy - at the time I was actually moreso happy about hearing that.. it was a warm and fuzzy feeling, lol). Let's see, I don't listen to Marilyn manson or really much of that other stuff, rather I listen to more alternative rock including: Linkin Park, Saliva, Our Lady Peace, etc. And, if you happen to recognize these bands, I also listen to other artists including: Thousand Foot Krutch, Toby Mac, Switchfoot, DC Talk, etc. However, despite all this, I think the primary reason I might not consider myself a "goth" is the fact that I am an avid and outward Christian. I don't really know if this is something that automatically would deem me unworthy of being a "goth" or perhaps even subjugaded and regarded as "lesser" than some others, perhaps some concidering themself to be "goth." I have been only viewing this site for a brief time (very brief, earlier today I was making myself some supper when a thought just floated into my mind "gothic.net". I don't know where the thought came from or why, it doesn't really interest me either, but I decided to check it out and stumbled upon this site. It was kinda ironic too, as the homepage of the site states "You have just stumbled upon..." which relates to my exact situation, which is kinda cool. So, I've been reading posts on this site for around an hour now). Ok, so I think that about sums up me, though I definately think I pulled a Polonious and WAY over-stated all that, so I appologize to everyone for that. Though, I think (and hope) it was essential for you to better understand where I am comming from for the rest of my post.

Ok, well I'll start the actual body of this post by asking a question: What is everyone's opinion of a "goth" ? Is a "goth" someone whom listens to hardcore death music ? Must one be consumed by thoughts of death and a morbid attitude ? Perhaps one must be exclusive and shy ? Perhaps one must be satanic, attempting to worship satan/lucifer/the dark prince/whatever ? Is being a "goth" some combination of all these things, or something entirely different ?

Despite the short amount of time I have been on this site, I have noticed a few specific generalizations (now there's an oxymoron for yah) including: "goth" is an attitude, not neccesarily a way of life, a dress-code, or a musical play-list. I have also noticed that there appear to be two "types" of people on this site (I again appologize, this time for generalizing people.. I dislike myself all the more for generalizing.. but it's an observation nontheless.) One "type" of person is the person that *appears* to hate life, people, and anyone willing to speak to them. The kind of person that will attack you if your belief system varies from theirs even in the slightest. The second "type" of person I have noticed is the exact opposite of the first: a caring, compassionate, usually educated and expressive person, that was perhaps the recipricant of abuse potentially caused by the first "type" of person, but not always the recipricant of abuse - often this type of person may be far from a place that might receive any significant amount of ridicule of any sort. My argument is that the latter "type" of person is more "true" to the definition of "goth." This observation is based on my own experiences of people who might be concidered "goth." Often I find strangers whom might be deemed the title of "goth" have more manners, intelligence, and honesty than anyone else I know, even people I have known for a long time. This, however, could be specific to my experiences and may not be the true definition of "goth" if such a definition exists.

Now, I would like to expand upon my previous questions. I would sincerely wish to know if, as a Christian, I am instantly eliminated from the possibility of being a "goth." Are Christians incapable of being "goth" ? Or are "goths" incapable of being Christian ? Or both ? I tend to see a pattern of thought congruent to both Christianity and "Goth" as well as many contradictions. The patterns tend to include a relative spirit of compassion, caring, and sincerity. They also both appear to fixated upon death and the afterlife. Differences then involve the afterlife, wherein, while both seem to concider the prospect of the afterlife more fluently, they each seem to hold to their own side of the spectrum involving such thoughts. Christians like to believe the afterlife is a possibility that grants all followers the ability to attain god-like qualities (I am referring to things such as modesty, reason, wisdom, etc. Not supernatural strength and all that) that will inevitably land them in a place called "heaven" where all pain and suffering is abolished, etc. "Goths" *seem* to fixate primarily on the opposite spectrum, where one might be sent to hell, a place of eternal fire and brimstone, turmoil and strife, pain and discomfort, a place where all your sufferings through all your life may be encompassed into a mere second, and multiplied a thousand-fold. At least, this appears to be one of the perspectives of "Christian" vs. "goth" thought. Perhaps in reality both are something entirely different, though I am basing Christianity more or less on my own beliefs. (I could go into a topic 5 times as long as this one based on my beliefs around Christianity, so I will spare all of you that discomfort and just try to wrap up this already too-long topic I seem to have created.)

To conclude this chain of thought, it appears as though "goth" is a relative title often given to people not of their own free will, though sometimes they wish for such a title, and is nearly always based upon the perspective of the individual. Thus, an accurate definition of "goth" does not appear to be capable of being drawn, outside of generalizations made between various perspectives. Therefore, the primary point of this post is actually a question: "What is YOUR definition of "goth ?"
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Old 10-24-2003, 10:03 PM   #2
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"When in doubt, make it up."

Seems to be what most people here do, so why not set the trend with this lengthy thread basically asking the question the majority of us are trying to avoid (because it's a major conflict of interest)?

"What IS goth?" Is it really relative to what you personally believe? It can be. So can be calling yourself a vegetarian. But when you explain yourself in saying, "I may eat tons of hamburger meat, but I use Pert Plus shampoo so that makes me a vegetarian," the ridiculousness of that statement should suddenly alert you to the fact that you're totally clueless. Call yourself whatever you want, but don't try and justify being clueless with broadened ideals, because only other flakey people will adopt them.

If you'd be so inclined as to be self-sufficient for more than one single minute, I'd suggest you go out and do some research (if this TRUELY meants THAT much to you), rather than just approaching the whole situation with the trial and error attitude. No one is going to hold anyone's hand around here, so "Do, or Do Not," but don't contribute to the THIRD thread on this exact same topic, which basically boils right down to your personal views, backing up none of them with refferences to the subculture or how it came to be.

There's no definition in any dictionary and no one person has the answer. It's so dumb to sit around and contemplate that it doesn't even deserve one thread dedicated to it, let alone three.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:05 AM   #3
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Goth·ic
adj.
often gothic Of or relating to a style of fiction that emphasizes the grotesque, mysterious, and desolate.

gothic Barbarous; crude.

n.
A novel in a style emphasizing the grotesque, mysterious, and desolate.


Well, I'll start by defending myself because, as I am a new member and have not seen *all* the forums, I don't know how many topics are designed around the definition of Goth. Secondly, it appears as though there is a definition found from dictionary.com relating to the term "gothic" in the context we appear to be using it. Whether everyone agrees with this definition is what is ambiguous and relative. And thirdly, you made a couple of claims about me I'm not quite sure I understand what you meant. I'm not overly concerned by the question, but it does interest me. I'm rather certain I'm not a goth, and I may never be, however I am intregued by the idea of it. That is why I have created this post, in search of finding information. What better method of research is there than to ask people who are actually around it ?

Now as to your post.. it seems as though you only have one point: This topic is not worth the time spent on reading it, let alone anything else. I can understand that, and it makes perfect sense, however everything else you said relates to absolutely nothing. Yeah, I can call myself a vegetarian and then go and eat meat, but use pert plus, obviously then I'm not a vegetarian regardless of my use of pert plus. That statement is so insanely obvious it boggles the mind as to why anyone would ever attempt to use it as proof of anything at all. I suppose you're attempting to make the point that I could call myself a goth, go around in sickeningly bright clothing, and have an Edgar Allen Poe bumper sticker on the rear of my car, but that probably doesn't make me a Goth. The only problem with that is it doesn't eliminate you from it either, at least not in my opinion. The definition of vegetarian is rather definite, and if you wanna be more precise there are other adjectives available including vegan, and whatever else. Gothic however seems to come down to a persons own perspectives, and so a blantantly obvious statement such as your vegetarian theory does not exist, at least not to the same degree.

Anyway, I'm still looking for other peoples opinions, if you've already posted somewhere else or simply don't care to answer this post by all means forget it, I'm simply here for informations sake. Thanks.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:20 AM   #4
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Ok I went and got you the TRUE DEFINITION for gothic so here you are now please leave this subject alone because it already has a couple of threads that you can read through and get people's idea's/tthoughts on the subject I believe one of them is subjected as Gothique and is in the general section of the forum with four pages devoted to this argument now onto the definition.

Definition courtesy of Dictionary.com gotta love it

Goth·ic ( P ) Pronunciation Key (gthk)
adj.

1.
1. Of or relating to the Goths or their language.
2. Germanic; Teutonic.
2. Of or relating to the Middle Ages; medieval.
3.
1. Of or relating to an architectural style prevalent in western Europe from the 12th through the 15th century and characterized by pointed arches, rib vaulting, and a developing emphasis on verticality and the impression of height.
2. Of or relating to an architectural style derived from medieval Gothic.
4. Of or relating to painting, sculpture, or other art forms prevalent in northern Europe from the 12th through the 15th century.
5. often gothic Of or relating to a style of fiction that emphasizes the grotesque, mysterious, and desolate.
6. gothic Barbarous; crude.


n.

1. The extinct East Germanic language of the Goths.
2. Gothic art or architecture.
3. often gothic Printing.
1. See black letter.
2. See sans serif.
4. A novel in a style emphasizing the grotesque, mysterious, and desolate.

Gothi·cal·ly adv.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:40 AM   #5
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You do realize that goth also happens to be an actual genre of music, right? That's not some broad "anything goes" area. Vanessa Carlton can go around and tell the press she's goth all she wants, but her music still gets thrown under the general Rock/Pop genre. You can go around and tell everyone you're a vegetarian, but most people will still consider you a meat-eatter if you're hogging down hamburgers. Ahhh.. yeah, suddenly that analogy does make sense, eh?

Yes, you can go into any dictionary and find "gothic/goth," but you won't find the definition in relation to what you're specifically looking for.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:51 AM   #6
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It was meant as a joke....... you've officially killed it. I meant to poke fun at his futile attempt at getting a definition of goth. You can get a comprehensive definition out of a dictionary.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:54 AM   #7
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Hunter,
I know.. calm down. :wink:
I was addressing Drizzt (and all of his remarks) with that whole post.
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Old 10-25-2003, 12:58 AM   #8
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Sorry I suppose I was looking for a reason to get irritated... :oops: :oops: :oops: about something. Here's another blushing smiley just for good measure and because they look interesting. :oops: :oops: :oops: *calms down* You know those little kids who get really cranky because they don't want to go to sleep and then as soon as you make them sit still for a half second they're asleep...? I'm feeling a bit like that right now. :oops: :oops: :oops: :lol:
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Old 10-27-2003, 07:02 PM   #9
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jesus was goth
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Old 10-27-2003, 07:54 PM   #10
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jesus was goth
Oh great. We've all heard that Jesus was a comunist, a hippie,a rebel, an anarquist. In some way, it kind of makes sense, but gothic.
Listen dude, he didn't just wear a cross, he got nailed into one. And you know what? If there really is a second coming, do you really think he's ever gonna want to see a cross again?
Or do you mean I can't be truly goth unless I get nailed to a tree?
Either that, or you actually took the "Jesus was gother than you" page seriously.
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Old 10-27-2003, 08:02 PM   #11
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My cat's breath smells like cat food too.
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Old 10-27-2003, 10:17 PM   #12
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What you are looking for is not a definition, strictly speaking, but a least common denominator. In this case, the LCD happens to be appearance(clothes/hair/makeup), and possibly venue of preference(In terms of type of club/bar, rather than specific location). Every other characteristic varies from individual to individual so wildly that patterns can only be found at the statistical level.

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Old 11-05-2003, 04:16 PM   #13
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Lol I love how there was definately only one person who took this post seriously, and thank you for that. And yeah, I'm contented with that answer, so I wont bore anyone else with any more definitions and all that. Thanks Ya'll.

P.S. I dont have a cat, but if I did, his breath would most likely smell like catfood.
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Old 11-06-2003, 10:25 AM   #14
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Heh, I find it sad that only one person took it seriously. It's not like he asked us to kill a judge or something. And someone seriously has an issue with vegetarians. Anyway, wasn't that a Ralph Wiggum quote, "My cat's breath smells like cat food! :o" [/quote]
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Old 11-14-2003, 11:04 PM   #15
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Drizzt wrote: The second "type" of person I have noticed is the exact opposite of the first: a caring, compassionate, usually educated and expressive person, that was perhaps the recipricant of abuse potentially caused by the first "type" of person, but not always the recipricant of abuse - often this type of person may be far from a place that might receive any significant amount of ridicule of any sort. My argument is that the latter "type" of person is more "true" to the definition of "goth." This observation is based on my own experiences of people who might be concidered "goth." Often I find strangers whom might be deemed the title of "goth" have more manners, intelligence, and honesty than anyone else I know, even people I have known for a long time.

so yea, that's me but i haven't managed to run into anyone that seems the same, but you say they are on this site? could someone please tell me where? the first type of people just seem to want to fight, but honestly, what's the point..... by the way i'm a Christian too, if you want to email back and forth with me, you seem really cool, my email is trinityhlj@**********
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Old 11-16-2003, 09:53 AM   #16
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OK, in a really round-about way, I think Drizzt's actual question was concerning if it is OK to be a Christian and a Goth.

I've been a "Goth" for over 18 years now, and I have been a Christian for 5 years. I did not see any reason to change my life style, my music, or my way of dress for any reason once I became a Christian. Some of the people at my church seem to disagree with me, but that is their problem, not mine.

Being a Christian and being a Goth, and how you present these parts of yourself to the world in general, are both something that is produced by a person's life experience and their personality. Goths may call it style, or individuality, Christians call it individual soul liberty. I, myself, have not found all that much of a clash in these two aspects of myself. Other people around me disagree with me (fellow Christians may not think I am much of a Christian, but then they are "judging" which is in itself a sin) and fellow Goths sometimes make fun of me for being a Christian (but I can usually talk circles around them about their own beliefs, because I have studied everything from Buddhism to Wicca) and I understand that everyone has their own beliefs and it is their right to have them. If everyone was exactly the same, this world would be excruciatingly boring.

You have to decide for yourself who you are and what you believe in. What other people are and think of themselves is totally unrelated to you. You can gain insight or get ideas from others, but I think in both instances (being a Christian as well as being a Goth) it is completely up to you to find a balance within yourself, to find out who you are and what you are ultimately comfortable with. You need to express yourself as an individual as well as be at peace with your conscience.
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Now all we have to do is determine if it's ok to be Jewish and a Goth. OR maybe Muslim and a goth.

Ever notice that Chrstianity has its opposite in Satanism, but no other religion has been reactionary enough to spawn a practiced dark side? I find this particularly enlightening.
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Actually, Wicca, Voo Doo, and certain forms of Animism all have practiced "light" and "dark" sides.
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The only way I have found to determine if people in black clothes really are Goth is to scream angrily at them. Sine all goths were heavily bullied at school, they are all to scared to shout back. If they, on the other hand knock your teeth out, you can rest assured they are not goth.

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The only way I have found to determine if people in black clothes really are Goth is to scream angrily at them. Sine all goths were heavily bullied at school, they are all to scared to shout back. If they, on the other hand knock your teeth out, you can rest assured they are not goth.
Of course goths don't know how to fight back. And neither do girls. :P
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Of course goths don't know how to fight back. And neither do girls. :P http://flem.keenspace.com/d/20000105.html
Screw that! If you scream at me, I sure as hell am going to scream right back at you.

An eye for an eye and all that crap. :twisted:
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The only way I have found to determine if people in black clothes really are Goth is to scream angrily at them. Sine all goths were heavily bullied at school, they are all to scared to shout back. If they, on the other hand knock your teeth out, you can rest assured they are not goth.
Of course goths don't know how to fight back. And neither do girls. :P
http://flem.keenspace.com/d/20000105.html
ROTFL! I was planning to check out flemco's comics anyway, and now I'm a fan already...

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"The only way I have found to determine if people in black clothes really are Goth is to scream angrily at them. Sine all goths were heavily bullied at school, they are all to scared to shout back. If they, on the other hand knock your teeth out, you can rest assured they are not goth."

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