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Old 04-17-2009, 02:25 AM   #26
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Anyone who is under the age of 17 who uses the term "technical virgin" is too stupid to be allowed to breed.
Not really, the term isn't just used to self identify by horny teens too scared to break an abstinence pledge. Technical virginity is actually becoming a somewhat widely studied phenomenon and the term is used by the researchers, another, possibly more fitting, name could be given but why not use the one already in use, and while some of the researchers aren't the most intelligent people in the world, most of them are intelligent and well educated. Not to mention that there are plenty of cultures where there are separate terms for someone who has engaged in no sexual activity and someone who has engaged in non-vaginal intercourse, and to me it makes perfect sense for them to have different terms, technical virgin is just the English equivalent.


Also people under 17 shouldn't be allowed to breed, no qualifiers necessary.
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Old 04-17-2009, 07:57 AM   #27
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Hahaha :P You just made my day ^^
To be honest, I don't think girls would care too much about a guy being virgin or not. Besides, what's the point in impressing random girls you will probably never see again if not your motive is to have intercourse? o.O I don't get it.
However, if you brag to said girls about being virgin by choice, chances are that they will just find you weird and step away rather than be attracted to you, sorry to say it. But again, choice is yours, but I wouldn't brag about being a virgin or heavy masturbater/voyeur/whatever "other stuff" might cover.
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Old 04-17-2009, 09:05 AM   #28
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Salumina hinted at this, but...News flash, oral sex and anal sex are still sex. Thinking you're a virgin after either is just wishful thinking. Next thing I know, you'll be telling me lesbians can't have sex unless they use a strap-on.
I tend to agree, but it's still a pretty popular term as of late.
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Old 04-17-2009, 09:53 AM   #29
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Is that the technical term meaning, "I can't get any cause I'm creepy" ?

Attending a Rainbow Party doesn't a virgin make.
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Old 04-17-2009, 09:54 AM   #30
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Ever see the movie Kids?

I knew a girl who was the female opposite of the main guy. Without the Aids of course (or so I think)


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Hahaha :P You just made my day ^^
To be honest, I don't think girls would care too much about a guy being virgin or not. Besides, what's the point in impressing random girls you will probably never see again if not your motive is to have intercourse? o.O I don't get it.
However, if you brag to said girls about being virgin by choice, chances are that they will just find you weird and step away rather than be attracted to you, sorry to say it. But again, choice is yours, but I wouldn't brag about being a virgin or heavy masturbater/voyeur/whatever "other stuff" might cover.
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Old 04-17-2009, 10:19 AM   #31
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Guh, no not "technically"...just "yes".
Wait. Are you saying that they should call themselves virgins because they only do it up the ass because it's "not actually sex"?
That's fucking stupid.
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Old 04-17-2009, 11:54 AM   #32
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Wait. Are you saying that they should call themselves virgins because they only do it up the ass because it's "not actually sex"?
That's fucking stupid.

Right now I'm talking about in general "penis/vagina" sex...do we really need to pull threads?

I mean christ, their is always AN exception, and we all know nothing is black and white...but I don't feel like having an argument about anal sex being actual sex.
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Old 04-17-2009, 12:12 PM   #33
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Also people under 17 shouldn't be allowed to breed, no qualifiers necessary.
What makes you think that?
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Old 04-17-2009, 01:05 PM   #34
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What makes you think that?
I don't think anyone at 17 is really ready to have a kid.
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Old 04-17-2009, 02:16 PM   #35
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"penis/vagina" sex.
This already irked me when it was mentioned the first time, it's a limited and therefore flawed way of looking at things. Hell, according to this definition, I would be a virgin.
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Old 04-17-2009, 02:32 PM   #36
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I don't think anyone at 17 is really ready to have a kid.
Pretty much this. 17 year old women are actually significantly more likely to have complications due to pregnancy than 19 year olds so there are health reasons but in addition to not being fully mature physically 17 year olds are not fully mature mentally or emotionally.
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Old 04-17-2009, 02:33 PM   #37
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Right now I'm talking about in general "penis/vagina" sex...do we really need to pull threads?
So then are gays perpetual virgins?
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Yeah, that's a bad way to look at it because I'm pretty sure the gay/lesbian community don't really want to be labeled as virgins for life.... just because they're not sticking a penis in someone's vagina...
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Also a true virgin is supposed to have some semblance of purity which really isn't the case if you are taking it up the ass
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Old 04-17-2009, 03:34 PM   #40
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Someone who's had a hand job is still a virgin. Don't tell me they're not.
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..., and we all know nothing is black and white...
Really?! I thought goths were, liek, all teh ways black vit vite facuz?! [/lame stereotypical assumption]
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Old 04-17-2009, 08:40 PM   #42
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Pretty much this. 17 year old women are actually significantly more likely to have complications due to pregnancy than 19 year olds so there are health reasons but in addition to not being fully mature physically 17 year olds are not fully mature mentally or emotionally.
Oh, you mean breed as in actually have a kid... xD I misunderstood, sorry =P
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Old 04-17-2009, 09:07 PM   #43
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Someone who's had a hand job is still a virgin. Don't tell me they're not.
You know, guys don't really ever "lose it" to be honest.... seriously... what's to lose? (Oh hey... I got off like I've done a couple hundred times for the past couple years except this time it was finally in a vagina!)

For guys its merely, "I put it in a girl for the first time!" I'm pretty sure..exactly where... doesn't really make much a difference..
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You know, guys don't really ever "lose it" to be honest.... seriously... what's to lose? ..
yes. That is SO annoying. Its is annoying if you ever have to use the phrase 'when I lost my virginity...' because its stupid. You would lose it if you were *****. Otherwise its just a first of that activity.
Is there any other way of putting it in English?

Also OP, It isn't creepy to be a virgin. In fact, I feel oddly happy when I find out there aren't many people he/she might be hung up on. But its a little creepy if you ask someone if they think you are creepy because you are a virgin and let them know that you like other things with the additional 'heh he' - in real life.
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So then are gays perpetual virgins?
Ohhhhhhhh my god. I believe I said that no area is "black and white".

I don't like having in depth debates online much anymore...k sry.
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Old 04-18-2009, 12:59 PM   #46
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You just like throwing out smart ass replies, and then barely defending them these days, eh? : P
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Ohhhhhhhh my god. I believe I said that no area is "black and white".
No area is black and white, therefore you tell Tam she's wrong because it's
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I'm also a virgin by choice(though I'm a girl), so I think it's kind of given that I feel a sense of respect toward other people who embrace chastity.
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You just like throwing out smart ass replies, and then barely defending them these days, eh? : P
In the beginning I wasn't trying to be a "smart ass".

I don't feel the need to defend my statement, so I'm not gonna. I'd rather have debates irl, not with some internet strangers.

Call it a "cop-out" if you want, why should I care?
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Old 04-19-2009, 09:08 AM   #50
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Stop telling everyone you're a virgin. You will never get laid.
Chicks don't want to sleep with virgins, because they have no idea what they're doing.
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