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Old 01-21-2014, 06:23 PM   #26
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If your boyfriend can't accept who you are, that's his problem, not yours. Being goth is not just a fashion you follow, it's a lifestyle, and you won't be happy if you're always compromising what you feel and want for someone else.

I went out with a guy who didn't like my style or my interests a couple of years ago. We broke up after about a month and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I'm not saying that you have to break up with your boyfriend; if you can agree that will be wonderful. But ultimately, if you can't you won't be happy together, so it may be for the best. He doesn't have to be goth too, just somebody who understands and accepts you.

I wish you the best of luck.
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Old 03-03-2014, 09:56 PM   #27
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Excellent post Lady Ruthven. Well said.
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Old 03-05-2014, 02:24 AM   #28
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Thanks deathsdj, I hope it helps.

I know a lot of people have problems like this (hell I did), but at the end of the day the most important thing is to be yourself and to do what you want. Some people won't accept it, but there and plenty who can and will.

I hope it works out for you.
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Old 03-06-2014, 04:05 PM   #29
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You...you have looked at the date on the original post? No? O.o
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