Plastic Life.

[Sanctus Dei]

Yesterday I received a misdemeanor stalking cease and desist order, so I opted to come here to avoid another night in jail. I guess that's it.. Thanks for listening.

I'm not sure this warrants it's own thread, but the subject has suddenly become relevant to my daily course of thought.

I made this a general topic so it could spread beyond my initial subject of interest but for the moment here is my issue:

My boyfriend/Fiancé informed me this evening that he had $2000 saved up to invest in a brand new shiny pair of tits for me. I'm not sure how to actually react to the reality of this. Of course I want to make him happy, and honestly as long as my nips retained their sensitivity I think I would enjoy them as well. BUT until now I really wasn't overly concerned with the appearance of my natural breasts. Um...
I am intrigued though... I've never felt that what I have fits me, but I never took plastic surgery as an option, now the offer sits on the table and I'm a deer in headlights.
I don't want to go crazy big I want to be as natural as possible, but definetly a step up.

I'm not asking for an answer, I have to decide that on my own... but opinions and general thoughts would be much appreciated.

[ExistentialDisorder]

My response would be to ask him if he'd also saved for his subsequent penis enlargement surgery.

I mean really. Is that all you are to him? A pair of tits?

Now, if this is a subject that you and he have discussed more than a few times in the past, and YOU have expressed a desire to him about having your breasts enlarged/altered/etc, (and NOT the other way around), and it's something you feel would make you feel/think better of yourself, then by all means go for it. As long as it's for you, not for him.

The only person you're guaranteed to spend the rest of your life with, is yourself.

[Empty_Purple_Stars]

Hmmm..

Well, I am unable to be objective on this issue but I'll offer my opinion anyway..

There are a few reasons why I would never get implants..


A) They have to be switched out every few years..
B) I've watched a video of what they do to your Tits putting them in, and it is quite terrible. I'll find you a link if you have a strong stomach and want to see what they do to your poor Boobies during the Operation. o.O
C) There is a chance of a loss of sensitivity to your Nipples, and mine personally are SO sensitive I would Spork my own Eyeballs out if that happened.. *Covers Nips*
C) The invasion of foreign objects into your body, as we know has serious risk and potential of life-long side effects. Even the Saline implants are not 100% safe. I'll try and find out some reliable info about the different types. It's important you look at all of the options.
D) There is a visible scar on each breast after the procedure in most cases.
E) They don't feel as natural, or move as naturally as real breasts.



I worked with Cancer Patients that chose implants after undergoing Radical Mastectomies. It made a huge difference in their self-esteem. I've known people that have been very happy with them, and I know people that wish they had never done it.

I can see the appeal, having Itty Bitties myself.

But I also think Real is Fucking Sexzie..

When I am watching Porn, I would rather see some Tiny, Perfectly Shaped little Titties jiggling like Tits should, with Nipples that actually get hard.

Small and Bouncy is fucking HAWT!!!

Not the Immovable Swollen Chesticles you see most Porn Stars with these days.

That's why Amateur Porn is so Hawt.. Mmmm..Goooooood...

But thats my take on the whole deal, You do what feels good for you..

Not for me, or him, or your mom, or Angelina Jolie or anyone else.

It is a big choice and all that matters is that you make an informed decision, that makes you feel good..

[Sanctus Dei]

I've had issues with the idea of it since I knew they were accessible... Natural has always been my choice, but now I'm not sure.

EPS: What ever information you have, not just for my benefit but for anyone else who has these questions, I would be greatful to receive.

ED... that was my first question.

Don't get me wrong guys, he loves me as I am and has never complained but he has mentioned his desires. The first time the sugject arose I told him I wasn't opposed but that it required a great deal of thinking, so I think that led to "Time to save for titties!!" in his head.

[Blushing Heliophobe]

I don't know how to answer this for you, but what I can do is give you a, err, larger gal's perspective on the matter.

Before I was pregnant I was a 32DD, and now...I am to about a 36F. Yeah, you heard me right.

When they are so big, it is damn hard to get a bra that just fits. Even at DD size, it is hard to just walk into WalMart and grab a cute bra your size - they are all granny-lated. Which means if you want cute bras, you gotta go to Frederick's or Vikki's and spend at least $40 a pop - not including sales. Good luck getting your panties size to go along with your bra size when they come in pairs.

In order to get bras that fit, I had to go to Cambridge and spent a little over $200 just to get 6 bras. That's converted from pounds. If my boobs were smaller, I could've gotten them at American prices on Base, but they don't supply above D cups.

Then, you can't fit into a lot of tops. Any top that has a built in cup look to it - I can't wear. I can't even find bathing suit tops that fit.

Then you got to put up with the comments women - not men - but women make. At my last dentist appointment the NURSES were talking about my boobs in front of me, saying they wish theirs were my size. When I told them it wasn't all that much fun, they laughed at me and called me a liar. My husband's friend's wife is jealous of them and I hear it through my husband.

I am so embarrased that I always try to wear a sweater around company for fear that everyone is staring at my damn chest.

My shoulders get indentions and sore muscles where the straps go. I get sore from wearing a bra, and sore from not wearing a bra.

Big boobs are not as much fun as they are made out to be! I'm not sure what size you're going for, but my reccomendation would be to look at the selection in all the stores you normally frequent for what size you will end up being.

The worst thing is that when I complain about any of the downsides of these masticles, women tell me to shutup and just be happy because they're big. And I didn't even have a choice!

If I could choose, I would never want to be bigger than C. Ever.

Everyone has their own opinion, so maybe other women don't think these problems are a big deal. They are a big deal to me. I would say to proceed with caution...

Besides Itty Bittys are great!

(I personally would tell him to invest the money in a motel room while he figures out where the hell he would be staying for...ever. There are a lot more tactful ways to bring up the subject)

[Demonista_Ravenesque]

Originally Posted by Empty_Purple_Stars

Not the Immovable Swollen Chesticles you see most Porn Stars with these days.

CHESTICLES?!?!? You stole my word!

[Blushing Heliophobe]

I'll share 'masticles' with you...

[Tall One In Black]

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

My boyfriend/Fiancé informed me this evening that he had $2000 saved up to invest in a brand new shiny pair of tits for me.

I hope that you, at some point in the past, had mentioned that you were thinking about implants. Because if he told you that out of the blue, that smacks of shallow jerk to me. I think it takes an insensitive ass to plot buying implants for his girlfriend who has perfectly good natural breasts.

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

Of course I want to make him happy...

If that's the reason you're considering surgery, STOP! Getting plastic surgery to please another person is a REALLY BAD IDEA.

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

BUT until now I really wasn't overly concerned with the appearance of my natural breasts.

If you never really gave much thought to your natural breasts, then why would you even consider surgery now?

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

... I want to be as natural as possible...

As natural as possible? Well, then just stick with what you have. Adding implants will make you unnatural. There aren't different levels of natural - either you are or you're not.

Though it may sound like it, I am not inherently opposed to breast implants. I have them, and it's totally changed my life for the better. My circumstances were VERY different, however. If I'd had breasts - even small ones - I would not have had the surgery.

I didn't have one surgery and then live life happily ever after. One year after my original surgery, an implant leaked. I had to carry it around inside me for months while I fought with the insurance company to have it replaced. It was very uncomfortable, bordering on real pain sometimes. Finally I had a second surgery to replace it. About six years later, I had to have a third surgery to remove scar tissue that had built up. I expect that I'll need subsequent surgery at some point in my life - I just hope it's ten years or more from now.

To summarize, I've had three surgeries in 10 years... and that's without having any serious problems. No infections, no serious capsular contrature, no bleeding.

Unless you have a few thousand dollars to cover the second surgery you might need, you shouldn't even consider the first surgery. Because that's what most breast augmentations are - a FIRST surgery. You're setting yourself up for more procedures in the future.

Bottom line for me is this: If you've been self-conscious about your breasts for years, if you pick out clothes with the purpose of disguising your breasts... then perhaps you should think about surgery. But if you've never given much thought to your breasts, then take that $2000 and do something good for yourself with it.

[Disfunction]

Chesticles, breasticles, tits, funbags...

[Empty_Purple_Stars]

Here is some of the Info detailing possible complications;

Dangers of Breast Implants

Much like any other surgical procedure, breast augmentation is full of risk of complications that can be caused by a number of factors. Although breast augmentation is considered one of the safest plastic surgery techniques, it is important to examine some of the potential complications that can result from this surgery. An examination of the possible dangers of breast implants includes:

* Deflation/Rupture:

The most common concern for patients that have undergone breast augmentation is that their breast implants would deflate either through a leak within the implant or through a rupture of the implant shell. There are many potential causes for deflation/rupture and the solution to this problem involves additional surgery to remove and possibly replace the breast implant.

* Capsular Contracture:

In this situation, capsule (scar tissue) that typically forms around the breast implant tightens and then squeeze the breast implant. Typically following infection, symptoms of capsular contracture range from mild firmness and discomfort to severe pain and movement of the breast implant. To rectify this, additional surgery will be needed to remove the breast implant capsule tissue and possibly the breast implant itself.

* Hermatoma/Seroma:

The collection of blood inside a blood tissue is known as hermatoma and seroma refers to a collection of the watery portion of the blood. Postoperative hermatoma and seroma may lead to infection and possibly capsular contracture. If large hermatomas and seromas occur, the patient will need to have surgical drains for proper healing.

* Change in Nipple and Breast Sensation:

Considering the great changes that you are making to your breasts, you should expect either an increase or decrease in feeling of the nipple and breast. Change can range from intense sensitivity to no feeling and can be temporary or permanent.

* Pain:

It is natural to feel pain of varying intensity and duration following breast augmentation. However, severe pain can be a result of complications of your surgery such as improper size or placement. If you are feeling severe pain, you should contact your plastic surgeon.

* Infection:

Like any other surgery, infection can result during breast augmentation. However, treating infections are harder in patients with breast implants than in patients with normal body tissues.

* Breast Tissue Atrophy/Chest Wall Deformity:

This can result when the pressure of the breast implant has caused the patient's breast tissue to thin and shrink. This phenomenon can occur while the breast implants are in place or following breast implant removal.

* Additional Surgeries:

The likelihood that a breast augmentation patient will have to undergo additional surgeries in their lifetime has increased dramatically. Surgeries will be necessary at some point to replace or remove the breast implant.

* Dissatisfaction with Cosmetic Results:

This is a problem faced by any time of cosmetic surgery. Wrinkling, asymmetry, implant displacement, incorrect size, unanticipated shape, implant palpability, scar deformity, hypertrophic scarring, and sloshing are some of the phenomena that can occur, which often leave patients unsatisfied with their final results.

http://www.plastic-surgery.net/dange...-implants.html

The Humantics Foundation has MANY shocking articles about Breast Implants. Including articles on the supposedly 'safe' Saline implants. Plus articles detailing the FDA'S unwillingness to admit there is STILL a problem with the implants being manufactured. Even the Saline Implants still contain Silicone in the actual lining of the implant. They may claim to be filled with Saline, but they are still 'housed' in Silicone. There is alot of good information on this site.

http://www.humanticsfoundation.com/

The site below offers objective information about implants, based in documented fact.

http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/

Below are some little known facts about Implants;

What you don’t know about breast implants

• Today’s breast implants are part of a long and often dangerous tradition. In the 1880’s, women tried to increase their breast size with paraffin injections; later glass or ivory balls were used.

• At the end of WWII, barrels of industrial grade silicone mysteriously disappeared off the docks of Japan. The silicone was injected into the breasts of Japanese prostitutes to make them more attractive to American GIs. Unfortunately, the silicone often migrated to other parts of the body, causing many health problems, and sometimes death.

• After the war, thousands of Las Vegas showgirls, actresses, and others in the entertainment industry were injected with liquid silicone. Silicone injections proved to be so dangerous that the government banned the procedure.

• Silicone breast implants were first "tested" on a thirty-year-old divorced mother of six who went to a Texas charity hospital to have the rose tattoos removed from her breasts.

• Silicone gel breast implants have been sold since the early 1960’s but at that time the FDA had no authority to regulate medical devices. They have never been approved by the FDA.

• When the FDA was granted oversight for medical devices in 1976, silicone implants were allowed to stay on the market, with no safety studies required.

• Saline implants were approved in 2000, despite the fact that 40% of augmentation patients and approximately two-thirds of breast cancer reconstruction patients had complications within the first three years.

• Studies by the National Cancer Institute found that women with breast implants were twice as likely to die from brain cancer, three times as likely to die from lung cancer or other diseases, and four times as likely to commit suicide, compared to other plastic surgery patients of the same age.

• FDA scientists have found that most breast implants break within 10-15 years, and that one in five broken silicone gel implants leaks outside the breast area.

• Liquid silicone is impossible to remove once it reaches vital organs such as the lungs.


http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/new...dont_know.html

And if that isn't Ooky enough, read this account of a beautiful young girl who received Saline Implants;

http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/per_stories/kacey.html

This is Kacey's personal website;

www.implantsout.com.

She will respond to you if you email her with questions.

I really agree with Tall One on this. If you already have breasts to begin with, even small ones, don't tempt fate.

Unless there is a Medical Reason for considering implants, it's just too risky.

Please don't think I am trying to make your decision for you, I just care about you too much to let you do this without knowing all of the facts and potential consequences..

*smooches*

[succubus,queenofvampires]

If you want to have a breast implant,regardless of the fact that your fiance wants you to,then go ahead.But if you're going to do it just for him,then you better not!And by the way,since you have normal boobs,why does he care so much about getting you a fake pair??Are your boobs the only things that interest him?If you don't want to do it,then you should tell him,and if he loves you he'll be perfectly ok with this since he should love you for YOURSELF not your BOOBS.Besides,this is your body,and you should decide whether you want chemicals that might be harmful inside your body,not your boyfriend,not us...

[Deviant Kitten]

Oh dear god!! EPS, I've never really liked the idea of having a foreign object put into my body, but reading through what you've just posted has most definitely put me off breast implants! That poor girl... I've just read her story at the link you posted and I'm shocked that saline ones can be as dangerous as the silicone ones!

Sanctus, I came across this recently: http://www.mybrava.org.uk/
I don't know if it really works or not though. It looks pretty convincing when you read all the scientific explanations... but obviously their aim is to convince us itty-bitties to part with our cash! I just thought I'd post a link to a (possible) non-surgical breast enlargement option. Hope it helps a little.

[WolfMoon]

You know, I was thinking of getting implants myself a while back, to please my X. But I had worked with a girl that got implants that never sat right. She also had horrible scar tissue from the surgery.

Personally, I would've bitch-slapped your man if I had been there. Seriously, what the fuck is he thinking? You don't go behind your girlfriend's back to save up for implants 'for her'. You may love your boi, but it may be time to find someone else.

I'm sorry if I come across too passionately about this, but I think that if you get the surgery it'll be more for his benefit than your own. You should never let someone(however much they say they 'love' you) talk you into something so dangerous.

The thing that pisses me off(whether or not I have the right to be) is that the Slime saved money behind your back. He should love you for who you are, not for what you have. What a jerk!

I say you tell him you're having the surgery, get the monies, then run off to the bahamas with a better lover.

[Empty_Purple_Stars]

I've met a couple of Girls that Bloussant worked really well for as well.

One girl was able to increase a full cup size. Which is all I would want anyway.

I've been curious to try it since I found out it actually works.

I like the idea of a natural, non-surgical option much better.

Here's their website;

http://www.bloussantproduct.com/flash/index.html

[WolfMoon]

Deviant, One of my employers had the Brava and really liked it.

She said that she saw an improvement. I never saw the before and after so, I don't know if it was all in her head or not.


Sanctus, leave your man and run away with me. I'll love your boobies just the size they are. I'll rub lotion on them, cup them in my hands to keep them warm(cuz you know how cold it gets in TX), and kiss them goodnight every night.

[Empty_Purple_Stars]

Originally Posted by Xnguela

Does bloussant help shape, too? I have a friend who has B's, and is happy with her size, but they're far too low for a 19 year old and she can never go braless. She just has really loose skin.

Check out the Testimonials on their webpage.. It seems too.. The girls I knew that used it, were really going for cup size increase, rather than shape..

I just really like the fact that its all natural..

I haven't heard of Brava before, I'm going to check that out too..

Don't get me wrong, my Breasts are on of the few things on my Body I know look really nice.

They have a nice shape, plenty of bounce, and I have Fairly Long but UBER SENSITIVE Nipples..

(Blushes Bright Red)

I'm currently a 36B. But a cup size increase would be pretty sweet.

I just don't want anything that will mess with the amount of sensitivity I have, because it's a wonderful, wonderful thing.. Mmmmmmm..


*plays with boobies*

[edible_eye]

Originally Posted by Blushing Heliophobe

Before I was pregnant I was a 32DD, and now...I am to about a 36F. Yeah, you heard me right.

[Deviant Kitten]

Originally Posted by WolfMoon

Deviant, One of my employers had the Brava and really liked it.

She said that she saw an improvement. I never saw the before and after so, I don't know if it was all in her head or not.

That's cool to know. Maybe I'm just an old cynic, but I don't tend to believe the testimonials on sites trying to sell something.

Bloussant sounds interesting too. I'm all for anything which doesn't involve putting dangerous shit into our bodies!

[Manimal]

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

Yesterday I received a misdemeanor stalking cease and desist order, so I opted to come here to avoid another night in jail. I guess that's it.. Thanks for listening.

So wait wait... I know everyone jumped right to the tits part of the issue - and thank you all for doing so cause I love reading about boobies - but am I the only one that caught the first part of the post?

What's the story behind that?

[edible_eye]

i saw that but my mind got derailed by blushing's 36 F's.

[Empty_Purple_Stars]

That was a joke about the joke she made here;

Originally Posted by Sanctus Dei

Ah... is this thing on?? *tap tap* Hi, my name's Sanctus Dei, I've been addicted to Wolfmoon for 5 months now. Morning, Night... it doesn't seem to matter I crave Wolfmoon awake or not. I'm on Zoloft, Vicadin and Prozac now so the need is weaker... but not gone. I've sold my TV and VCR, lost my house..twice, I've spent nights in the tank, slept on the sidewalk and all just to earn the ticket to visit her.

Yesterday I received a misdemeanor stalking cease and desist order, so I opted to come here to avoid another night in jail. I guess that's it.. Thanks for listening.

Now back to Boobies...

[Sanctus Dei]

Yea... that was a copy/paste mistake. I wrote the post offline and pasted it later. I didn't catch the mistake until far too late.

Originally Posted by edible_eye

i saw that but my mind got derailed by blushing's 36 F's.

*pout* See E_E it's comments like that which get us girls all upset about this shit!!

I agree with every comment made here (glad I brought this up, great conversation) please don't castrate the boi... he's not bad just stupid He loves me indefinately, hung with me through alot of bad shit... he just likes boobs. I think I'm going to check out these other options, he's up for anything that will make us both happy (plus if we opt for this Brava deal he's paying for it 100%)

btw, when I said I didn't think about it.... it was because before him I wasn't the sexual kitty-kat I am now. *lol* I'd like to improve for my own appeal as well as his enjoyment.

Oh and thankyou everyone for your information gathering, I will bring these issues up to him so he realizes this idea isn't as safe as he would hope.

[Blushing Heliophobe]

Okay, my main intent was to point out all the reasons that big boobies are not fun.

Not shake them all around!

Bad EE! Bad! Somebody should deliver you a spanking...

I'm sorry Sanctus. It was utterly not my intention. Massive boobays are a pain in the butt.

Take this conversation for example?

[Sanctus Dei]

Oh Helio, I know your intent. It was that naughty naughty...E_... wait, why was I upset with him?

[Blushing Heliophobe]

Originally Posted by GeishaGirl

E_E was just shocked to find someone who had the same size boobies as he does.

Best man titties EVER!

Hehe...Sanctus, I leave his 'discipline' to you, sweetie...