Vasectomy. That´s it!
Well. Tenet, do you know someone who already DID reverse it? I mean, I wonder if all, you know, is functional afterwards :-)
My friend is in his early 30s and might plan to have children (with his younger girlfriend) a bit later...

Well his wife apparently doesn't care, aside from wanting him to be safe, which is ALWAYS a must in my book. But I'm also not that niave(sp?), I don't think she doesn't care, even if she does say it. My guy and I never went through with it, even when we watched porn, we both came to the realization that we don't want to betray the wifey like that. I like her too, and I'm attracted to her. SO it's a no go as far as I can tell at this point. I think the friend realizes this too, because even watching porn side by side neither one of us made a move. I'd feel completely different about it if the sexy wife was there too. He's staying with us next week as well because he's working down our end of the Cape and needs to save on gas.

;) it is hot as hell when you find the right people, but it can make or break a relationship and can be difficult to orchestrate.

As I told Sanctus, it can make or break a relationship, it's a delicate lifestyle that requires a lot of communication and honesty as well as compassion for your one true lover. I agree that's probably not good to change the nature of this friendship by doing it. The friendship you have with a "playmate" is different entirely, and not nearly as sacred as a friendship that doesn't involve sex.

No glove, no love.

It's probably best left to fantasy then.

^ most frequently asked question by those who aren't into it. It's actually brought us closer, and I share him too. It's about a mutual freakishness that we both enjoy exploring together. We NEVER go out and do it by ourselves, it's strictly a couple activity.

This beautiful lady knows the score. :D

Me too!

And ever since Xng posted that link with the stripper shoes I've wanted to even more. As I've said before: I'd buy a pair of the clear platforms with the flame heels and dance to Fire woman by The Cult. ;)

Wound up can't sleep, can't do anything right lil honey since I set my eyes on you....



Doubi, you're absolutely right. It does take a lot of communication and the lifestyle is certainly not for everyone.

Hot Damn, woman!

Wolfie, every time I think there is nothing more you can do to make yourself seem hotter, you say things like this. Holy fuck! Clear platform flame decorated heels, beautiful boobies and such a lustful attitude as to make a man weak in the knees!

I haven't had much interest in going to strip clubs in a long time, but that is a show that would inspire me to come. Er ... attend ... oh, you know what I mean!

You know I do plan on going to Houston again.......:D

I have that page bookmarked. I have my eyes set on a pair of pink and black knee high boots. Oh yeah.

You know, Houston is about four hours away from me...when i'm home, not me right now...nevermind you get the idea. ;)

So, just for shits and giggles, I have a 'Ask Miss Manners' Sexuality question.

A week ago I was talking with a friend of mine about our sex lives and apparently we are both allergic to KY. Well, I found out the hard way that I am, so I order AstroGlide from the States. Her symptoms sounded just like mine, so I told her about my allergy so she decided to look into it. It puts their sex life on hold until she can get some ordered from the States.

A thought occured to me and the mr when we were talking about it later - would it be too weird to offer them one of our numerous bottles (hey they don't carry it here so we have to stock up), or would that be just too kinky? As in, hey thanks for being my friend - here's a bottle of lube!!!

What do you guys think?

BH. Depends on how good friends you are, I guess. If she´s looked deeper into the allergic reaction (maybe consulted medical help) and it´s clear for her that she´s got to choose another sort of lube - then maybe (if you´re good friends) you should talk with her. Be sure to make a nice parcel (how about her birthday?).

I honestly think I'd appreciate the gesture if it were me Helio...Just bring a bottle with you hen next time you see her and say "I'm not sure if you've ordered the product yet but I have quite a bit, I imagine if your a bit like me you could use it sooner then later... so I thought I'd bring you a bottle! I'm sure she'd be happy you thought to help her out I mean it IS a time of need isn't it?

Speaking of strippers... My boy and I are planing to purchase a stripper pole for our new place (how tacky eh??) I actually can't wait, I hear it's great excercise and the entertainment value is way worth the cost.

I don't feel like such a kinky weirdo anymore.

Gee, thanks guys. LOL.

A stripper pole? That is so awesome! How much is it costing you? That's about one of the best gifts that will keep on giving that I can think of.

Now you've got me thinking...I've got something new to add to my wish list.

Also, it gives you a good excuse to buy alotta sexzie boots and outfits....:)

Cost of the pole...Only around $300, technically $350-$375 after taxes and shipping I'd imagine. And yes, outfits and boots are a must!

Hmmm... I'm already thinking of interesting ways to beg for this.

"To go to the Strip Club, it costs you cover, and drinks, and for each lap dance you have to tip the stripper. It can be a costly outing. You have to deal with crowds, and you can't have sex with the stripper anyways. Does that make sense? Of course not!

But...if you buy me my very own super special stripper pole for $300 plus shipping and handling, I can strip every night for you. You do not have to tip me. I will give you undivided attention. Plus, a regular stripper won't have sex with you. I will. For free.

Pretty please with sugar on top can I have one? You will be rewarded."

How's that for a rough draft =^^=

I don't think so. ;-)

WAIT! What the fuck was it thinking. Hells Fucking hey!

I think CB is going to be a very happy man.

Sanctus, hows about some strippin' vids when the pole arrives?

*wicked grin*


AS for the rest of you, I can promise plenty of entertainment. I aim to please. Even if it only pleases, me. :D

Does that mean more pictures?!?

Hmm.. Stripper video... *wicked wicked wicked grin* Wolfie, you're an inspiration. ;)

I am a very happy man. I love my life, and wife. :-)

Can we make one together? And Foxy too!?

Queffs.

Discuss.

They make me laugh. That's why you have to save doggy for last, unless you can fuck and laugh at the same time.

It's also fun to call people 'queef's.

Maybe you have a sinus queef?