Wait, isn't that just a sneeze?

Well, I was reading along and thinking "Damn, I need to not read this thread just before I'm getting ready for work!" Then I hit the posts about "queefs" and suddenly ... not so much. Hah!

BH, the fact that you've talked with her about as much as you have already tells me she will probably be receptive to it. I would make the offer, and I bet she will be highly receptive of it.

Santus, your boi is a very lucky, lucky guy. I bet you "fiddy" dollars that he doesn't say no! Ha ha ha! (I have to laugh so I don't cry from jealousy. I want a girlfriend that wants a stripper pole!)

Wolfie, Oh, I feel pretty confident thinking you wouldn't be the only one entertained ... or pleased. Videos? ... Oh my! *drools ... then picks tongue back up*

Geisha, good to see you back, hawtness. You've been missed.

I'm treading through unfamiliar and dangerous territory with sexuality. Fooling around with no commitment is unfamiliar to me.

DISFUNCTION!!!!! <3 you baby!! You seriously need to be around more..

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I happen to think your born gay, straight, bi. I do not think it is a choice necessarily, although some people might just get fed up with the opposite sex and say fuck it, I'm going gay!

That's all I did for the first 5 years of my sexual life. I'm a slight commitment-phobe.

Commitment is difficult with so many spectacular men around, but my boy is stellar and one of a kind. He keeps me happy and sane, plus his appetite is juat as insatible as mine so what would I need anyone else for?

Being faithful is not a problem for me at all. My guy is gorgeous, funny, sweet, and sexy as heck.

I just don't feel he is as mad about me as I am about him... That's what scares me about commitment, I think - that I won't get as much as I give...

Sanctus, you're a lucky, lucky girl!

Finding someone with the same sexual appetite as your own is a hard thing to do, believe it or not.

you be turnin' into a playa, yo.

It's not working for me. Ha.

*lol* You may be looking in all the wrong places then. ;)
*psst* Male Strip clubs are first on my list!

:D

I'm gay. Enough said.

Ah... yeah, thanx for the heads up.

*sigh*

What does that mean?

It means.. we don't care. I don't think a single person here cares to identify you by your chosen sexual preference. We'd rather get to know you as a person... be proud of who you are.. but for fucks sake love overstating the obvious is sorely unnecessary.

Wtf, Nachtsorcier? Did you think we would attack you based on your sexuality? You apparently aren't very open-minded.

Well, I for one have no bias against anyone for any sexual identities, lifestyles or choices they embrace. It strikes me that is supremely important that they be safe and be respectful and considerate of others. Beyond that it just doesn't matter and I don't care.

I DO get highly annoyed by people who want attention for being "different". You wouldn't be one of THOSE people, would you, NachtSorcier?

Hi Sanctus :) I agree whole-heartedly with that. However, I do think one should allow for the fact that NachtSorcier is new and so doesn't know us yet. After all, he has made the statement in a thread entitled, "Sexuality" and it was only four words, half of which were, "Enough said". Obviously, it would have been better if it had in some way related to a previous posting, or made some significant point about whether or not he felt his sexuality influenced his appreciation of gothic culture. But perhaps one should wait to see how his further postings develop?

What I meant was, the fact that I am gay should make my stance on sexuality clear. My stance, since it apparently wasn't clear, is that you are free to be who you are and no one should have the right to judge you based on that. I had no intention of implying that anyone on here would dislike me based on my sexual orientation, nor did I imply that anyone should care whether I am gay or straight. And as for how my sexuality influences my appreciation of the Gothic culture, it does greatly in that I've learned from corresponding with other Goths, including those on this forum, that the subculture itself is generally accepting of all sexualities.

And I'm closed-minded? Think again. I'm probably more open-minded about almost anything than most people you'd meet. In fact, I'd be glad to hear any arguments about how you're even more open-minded than I am. Top that.

Note that that last statement was a joke, albeit a serious one. I am sorry that I projected that message.

And by the way, you do not choose your sexuality, it chooses you.

More open-minded than moi? My dear boy, don't be rediculous! :D

Absolutely!

Nuh-uh! I am! :-P

NachtSorcier, all of that could have been stated quite nicely without any reference to your own sexual orientation. In fact, stating that "the fact that you are gay should make your stance on sexuality clear" is the most ridiculous thing I've heard this week (and you've topped some really challenged individuals!) The only conclusion I could draw from your statement that you are gay is that you were professing your interest in members of the same sex.

I have met republican homosexuals, gays who did not believe gays should have the right to get married, gays who believed being gay is a choice and gays who believed they were born that way. It's an alphabet soup of sexual mores and beliefs out there, and no one should generalize about or judge someone based on their sexual orientation. Not even you.

If you were tying to state that you believe everyone should be open-minded and respectful of others regardless of their orientation ... then just say it. I would respect and agree with it. But you had to come out with the "I'm gay" pronouncememt ... as if you were challenging people to bring out their prejedices.

Which tells me you aren't nearly as liberated of mind as you think you are.