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Originally Posted by Alan
(Post 566256)
I could never be attracted to a chubby girl. I like them skinny. I like them to compete with me for who's the lightest. If you had an option of having a girl at 140 pounds or 115, why would you want 140?
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Reminds me of one night during which me and my roommate met these ladies which we ended up dating for a few months. We got off work at 3:00am that night and the place had mostly emptied out at that point. Just the two of us, a couple of drunks playing pool and a lone woman sitting at the bar. This woman was pretty attractive, at least facially. The rest of her though, not so much. The problem wasn't that she was fat, quite the opposite. Weighing in at probably 110lbs dripping wet, she was hardly large enough for a B cup and her hips were probably more narrow than mine.
Anyway, we head up to the bar to grab our first pitcher and a couple bucks in quarters. At this point one of the drunks manages to smack into roommate's arm as he was trying to squeeze in between him and the girl just as he's turning away from the bar, causing him to splash a sizable portion of our pitcher on her shirt. Being the kind person I am sometimes, I offer her the use of my shirt while I wash hers in the laundry machines at the apartment complex next door.
While her shirt is in the wash we start talking and as the conversation gets going we start sitting closer together. Shortly there after she starts talking about how she loves my long hair and commenting on how soft it was as she started playing with and running her fingers through it. That was about the point we ended up deciding that me and my bro are going to accompany her and her roommate to their place once her roomie gets off work.
A little more time passes, her roomie shows up and we head back to their place. Now the roommate probably weighed somewhere between 130-140lbs, but come time to move into the bedroom my bro was heading off to the skinny girl's room and me to the other's as I had shifted most of my attention to her friend as soon as she arrived.
So, why did I pick the 140lb woman over the one weighing 110lbs? Because a nice portion of that 140lbs were gorgeously round DD sized pillows for my head to rest on during the movie and hips that couldn't have been designed more perfectly curved. While, on the other hand, the skinny girl's nearly strait lined body more closely resembled that of my roommates than a woman's.
I'm also far from the only guy that perfers a size 10 or 12 to a size 3 or 4. I've known lots of guys that find Paris Hilton's body very unattractive. As to someone's comment about how a guy would be more attracted to a skinny girl over a more full figured one because genetically we find unhealthy looking people unattractive, I think you've got things switched around. If you look back through history, as well as to current period cultures that haven't been programmed to think thinner equals sexier, the ideal woman's body always has a fair amount of beautifully contoured meat to it as that's the way nature intended a woman's body to look and men are attracted to it because in our species a woman with a nice amount of roundness has always equated to a good sign of health and fertility.
As for which is actually unhealthy or unattractive, either can be. Obviously not to many men want to be with a woman if you have to prop up her belly fat to gain access to her vaginal region or go at her from behind because her front butt sticks out twice as far as her rear, ummm, rear. Then there's the health problems like high blood pressure, cholesterol, type II diabetes and a whole assortment of other medical problems caused by obesity.
On the other end of the spectrum, if I wanted to have intercourse with someone that had a strait lined and hard body I'd find me a guy to have a fling with. When it comes to women's bodies, not only do I find a rounder woman more sexually attractive, I also find that sex itself is more pleasurable. Not only do skinny girls tend to lack the nicely rounded breasts and hips, there's nothing there to act as a cushion and it feels like my public bone's smacking into and grinding again hers. Plus, there's also health issues related to being overly skinny such as anemia, higher risk for osteoporosis in women and weakened immune systems.
