Yep. I like that. Usually women who are like that are more comfortable in their own skin, more relaxed if you know what I mean.

I doubt she gives a flying fuck what you think. Actually, I KNOW she doesn't give a flying fuck.

That's fine.

OK then, everythings good.

I don't think you like many people. Just a hunch.

That's because girls hate on you b.c yer sexeh.

Thank you? And Underwater Ophelia, what reason do you have for not liking me? I'm not quite sure you have a defined reason to dislike me being as we have never met.

People in here are good. Holy. Thou shalt not say that.

I'm not quite sure I understand..

Yeah, there's a lot of that going around. Don't stress out over that one.

Agreed. This whole place reminds me of the song Sunshine Ward by Amebix at times.

:F I love you analface!

This is reunion of sorts here, this place is changing for the better.

It was probably you're "I act like a man because I BURP and FART and those are MAN THINGS"

So what? She can do what she wants to do.

I don't give two shits if people don't like me, I was just curious.

That isn't the point, you unforgivable moron.

Enough of this, call me what you want, it's all words when the day is done.

very true indeed . Some people take it just a tiny winy bit too seriously.

Haha.
I would love to be your room-mate.

I feel like I should reassess myself. I burp and fart and talk about chicks and drink too much and hang out with boys. I never felt tomboyish or un-girly. That's just what people do, innit?

What a coincidence! I also enjoy my friends! We have so much in common! Let's be best friends!

Let me just bring up again how much I hate this question. I hate it, it doesn't make any sense.

It is foreseeable that, perhaps, there may be a couple of people on a forum at "gothic.net" might feel as though they completely fit within a gender role assigned to their sex and that only... but it just isn't likely.

Even if it wasn't a gothic forum, it's 2010, officially the future, and trying to hold on to gender role like they actually mean something just comes off as desperate to me... something old people who are afraid to die would do.

And the biggest problem is that the question is clearly asking what your sex is, but it says "gender" in a context that focuses on your personality, and not your physical sex. The problems with this are innumerable, and my head is going to explode if I think about it anymore.

Anywhichways, my point is that the question was worded to make Ophelia hate you. By using gender and not sex in a way that clearly means they want to know your physical sex, you answered with both. When pressed, you just mentioned things that you felt put you into a more masculine mindset. And you aren't wrong... standards of gender are only based on your expectations of them, "farting and drinking" are only masculine to you because... they are masculine to you. That's it.

But because the question is so... awkward, Ophelia would look at that and go "what the shit is this? how does that quantify anything?" Because everyone is going to have a different reaction to that horribly worded question. It's probably all just a misunderstanding. That, or some people really are that obnoxiously stand-offish. I prefer to blame the question.

I'm really ranting myself off a cliff here, so ima sum this up by saying that the whole thing is a conspiracy run by the lizard men from beyond the moon.

Why is my friend's thread being used as a rant for you, stay outta here!

Guys can be a lot easier to get along with, but lately, I have been spending a lot of time with other women, and I have to say, it's pretty great!
Like anything else, it always helps to have a good group going....and my current knitting group consists of a variety of personalities, some of whom are the type of women who don't always get along with their own gender.