Hopelessly! :D

you are a cherry life saver!

*feels all special now*

I quite firmly agree with Edible, Suicide.

I like your sig. as well. Japanese, isn't it?

yes it is japanese..

it's a line from the song "Moonlight Denetsu" from the anime Bishojuo Senshi Sailor Moon "Pretty Soldier Sailor Moon"

i think if you want to get married then go on no matter what your into.

i know for a fact that in the uk it wil be legal to get married if your gay in early december.

i used to love Sailor moon, Jade!

Hey Janine... My spleen is single and looking... His name's Todd and he's just coming out of a bad relationship with my colon. You interested?

i think gay's should be allowed to get married....but then again i'm gay and i think we should be treated fairly and just because someone loves a little differently that another person is no reason to say they can't marry who they love....

Aw geeze, Xng! *hugstight*

NO ONE should be assaulted while at school. Where the FUCK were the adults? That shit is illegal, no matter how you paint it. :cry:

Cold comfort, I know...but just remember, these morons are A) Stupid, B) Most likely hiding their own same-sex tendancies.

You know, this is what I don't get. If it doesn't directly interfere with your life, why should you care what another person's sexuality is?

I crack up at the lame "bestiality" and "child molesting" argument. There is no comparison. Homosexuality is between two consenting adults (or almost adults...either way, between two people capable of informed consent). How can an animal, or a young child give "informed" consent?

Big difference, IMO.

:(
No ya don't, hun. You're just upset....

NO ONE should ever make you wish you were different.

I can't imagine having to put up with anything like that... I never had to, being home-schooled and all.
Plus I never bothered to make "friends", so I never had to deal with people freaking out over my differences. If they did, I really never noticed.

I'm sorry you have to put up with crap like that... hopefully things will get better.

I know my words are pretty weak and meaningless.. but it's all I can offer.

Take care, doll. *hugs*




-M.

i hate that you got hurt - and yes, who the fuck hits girls other than punk-ass fags? tell him - only fags hit girls and then call him a fag. i'd like to get that kid's head between my hands and squeeze until it burst for hitting you. i'd spit on his shaking, crushed-head corpse.

mother fucker.

*hugs* Xng, you are so much better than they are. I wish I was there to hug you IRL. You sound like you need it. :(

And right now, you may not belive this, but the fact that you can't find it in you to hate like they do makes you an incredible person, and so much stronger than they are. Hate does nothing but use up energy uselessly, and closes the mind to real enlightenment.

Hate like that is born from fear, and (with apologies to Frank Herbert) Fear is a mind killer. When you give into that kind of hate and fear, you stop thinking. And like I said before, you're better than that.

Cold comfort, I know. I wish I had some wise words to use to help you through this, but just know that you have my heart, my caring, and my respect.

X -

My advise is to stand strong to your convictions. People who attack gays do so out of either fear or ignorance. Either way they represent the worst of society, and know that they themselves will never amount to anything until they confront their own personal demons. You will see those who are the most anti-gay are so as they themselves are gay, but due to family/social probems, they are forced to remain in hiding and lash out at anyone who is able to come out and be happy.

Also, to those following this thread, we have a similar one in the politic discussion board on gay bashing, but alas, the anti-gay people on this site have hi-jacked it and turned it into a gay-bashing thread itself.

Slán

Xng, dearheart, I wish I could be there with you.I admire you for being able to do something I would never be able to.I would've stomped the fucker's ass!I'm terrible at things like non-violence in the face of a threat.At least you had the presence of mind to remember the purpose of the day, love.

*BIGHUG*

Yeah, that's mob mentality for ya.It makes an otherwise rational person a complete idiot.

gay marriage should be legalized

Pearls of wisedom.

I am VERY late finding my way here and I am sorry for that Xng.

That's so much fucking bullshit, there really aren't any words.

And your correct about groups, people in groups are 100% more likely to either A) Turn their head when someone else does something violent Or B) Participate themeselves simply because they do not want to be the only one NOT participating..

As I mentioned before I grew up in Houston, Texas. I lived for five or six years in ' Montrose ' which is a predominantly Gay part of town.

All the Jocks and Frat Boys from the Burbs used to get all liquored up on the weekends and drive down to the Montrose to find some ' Queer ' to beat up.

This of course was YEARS before such things as ' Hate Crimes '

I was driving back to my loft one evening during the Westheimer Arts Festival, which was a freak fest we had in the Montrose every summer. Lots and lots of fun, but thats another story.

As I turned onto the street near my loft I started to hear people yelling, and someone else screaming. I slowed my car and rolled down the window and could tell it was coming from nearby.

I pulled over and got out of my car and saw all the empty vendor booths closed down for the evening. As I started walking towards them, I saw the guys.

Three Frat boys kicking the living shit out of someone else..

I won't even repeat the things they were yelling..

This wasn't that long after a gay/mexican friend of mine had been killed from a ' Boot Party ' some skins decided to have on his skull. To this day we don't know whether they killed him for being 'gay' or 'mexican'.

Something just snapped inside of me and I started screaming as I ran at the three of them. I suppose they stopped because I startled them so much.

We all looked at each other for what seemed like an eternity, and then one of these assholes says; " Fuck this ******, let's go. "

They took off running, and just as quickly as all of this rage came on me, it drained away when I saw what was left of the man they had beaten to an unrecognizable pulp.

He was just a guy. An artist, selling his handmade pottery down there to make some extra money.

You couldn't even tell he was human anymore..

The sad thing is the police station was less than a block away. But the cops were so busy because of fuckheads like this, he never stood a chance.

Someone else stopped and went and called 911 for me.

All I could do is sit there with him, hold his hand and tell him it was going to be ok.

It didn't make any sense then, and all of these years later, it still doesn't.

It never will..

Guys like those bastards are the same ones who showed up outside the chapel of my friend Dan Mattatat's funeral to spit on his friends and family, because he was gay and he died of AIDS.

Poor Dan was so ashamed of who he was, and what happened to him, his parents didn't even know he had AIDS and was dying until he was dead.

It was so heartbreaking.

Of course there was more ignorance and more fear then there is now.

Much has changed since the nineties, but not enough.

But there has been much progress, and at least there is a wee bit more tolerance among people..

But there always be those pathetic, insecure pieces of shit that feel the need to destroy what they do not understand..

Those guys aren't even worth you spitting on Angel..

Karma will get them in a much more gruesome way than you, or any of us ever could.

You held to your convictions, and what you believed in, and THATS what matters.

They may have hurt you, but they couldn't touch the part of you and everyone else that they truly wanted to hurt.

That part is untouchable by any of them.

Your pride, your beliefs, your passion, is yours and yours alone..

They didn't lay a finger on that..

I am proud of you for staying strong, and not lowering yourself to their pathetic level.

Sending you lots of Love, just like everyone else, and I am so so sorry..

You did the right thing, hold tight to that..

During Vietnam, a Buddhist monk was asked what he would do if he was shot at for his peaceful protest against the war.

I will never forget his answer, and it took me years to understand it.

His answer was a simple one..

He said " If the bullets come, I simply will not be here. "

Don't be there ok?

We love you Pretty, and I'm here if you ever need me..


*Soft Hugs*