*facepalm* yes, because I totally meant you should date little girls. I mean young women, genius.

Nothing wrong with having fun,I was raised that you if you work hard you should play hard.

Your views on women seem to be so fucked up I don't even know what to say to help you.

And Noumi pointed it out that fun and excitment is what most young women want, and that being a "provider and protector" is boring, and being needy is a turn off. So whats the problem with what she said?

I liked the way you said that. :D

Yes but I took it as her calling me needy and immature.

Maybe I took it the wrong way.

Because.....
 

Why do women hate guys that bust their asses to provide for them,protect them,and go through so much hell for them?
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It is BIOLOGICAL.
Dogs and cats do it.
If a man "busts his ass" to make a woman "happy" the woman's "parts" note that behavior as a weakness.

Biology dictates that the strongest, most aggressive and asshole male be "alpha" therefore, be "the one to breed with" so that strong offspring are produced. It's a mammal thing, not necessarily a HUMAN thing but... some humans DO think the way animals do.

I am older and had "parts" REMOVED and now I can think straight without all that biological b.s. goin' on. I want a man who will bust his ass for me because I bust MY ass for him. ... YES, I DO. (so, he'd better!)

I'm not saying the woman shouldn't do her part,both partners should watch out for each other,and help one another out.

.. Fine so far.


Are these really THAT important??

This..

And this, 99% of the time are contradictions in a character. If she's willing to cope with you being stubborn, then she probably won't be that strong willed.

Are you fucking stupid?

That question is rhetorical on these boards.

That was uncalled for. She is an older (but sexy!) woman so she has experience and observation that is beyond your comprehension. People's priorities change as they age. You cannot comprehend it, but someday when you are in your wheelchair with your oxygen mask and your liver transplant, you, JCC, will not give a damn about boobs. Hard to believe but it is true. Unless you die young from whiskey and cigarettes.

seriously? do you know a guy who would actually turn out to be good? I haven't met a guy to provide for me yet.. wish i could.. sigh

Liusadih: Movies and Music are trivial,but it wouldn't hurt to have common intrests.

She wouldn't have to cope,only tolerate to a point,who is to say I wouldn't find her stubborn in some cases, I would be able to agree to disagree.

Nothing gets past you! Minutiae reveals the soul.

She didn't say something wise but hard to understand if you're young, she said something stupid.

Humane and Invisigoth, you are both fucking stupid
 

You're fucking stupid because you think the lack of a sex drive makes you some sort of wiser being and you're trying to apply logic of relationships learned on animal planet onto people. You know why you don't get the man who will bust his ass for you? Because you're fucking stupid.
You are fucking stupid because you think with your dick. You defend any woman on this board who you find attractive no matter how asinine they make themselves sound with their stupid, half baked comments. Then they see you as the sweet older guy and anyone with some fucking perception sees you as the pervert who can't keep the blood flow in his brain and his dick in his pants. Also, stop fucking talking down to people who drink or smoke. So you used to smoke, and you used to drink and didn't have a fucking clue how to do it responsibly. You went to AA and now you think you're some fucking enlightened being.

Get off your high horse.

God, you're cool.

Three words are not enough context to pick up sarcasm, but I'll take it as a compliment just for my own amusement.

I was being sincere. If I wanted to be sarcastic, I would have included more words to ensure that you didn't misapprehend me.

Well then thank you.

JCC,Gothicus, and Joker (But the following applies to everyone)

Fucking stow the hostility,it's really unneeded.

Stupidity warrants hostility. If it were coddled like a child it would grow, and that's one thing that we don't need in this world.

Deadmanwalking_05, you may find hostility unnecessary, but personality I need to lash out at forumites in order to feel big and get an erection. You're free to come here and hit or shoot me, if that would please you.

Stupidity warrants education.