if i didn't like you so much, i'd say, "screw you!" *hee*

heh. nah, it's ok, sweets.


we went to this buffet place for lunch yesterday and they base the price of the child's meal on their age.

the guy looks to my son and says, "how old are you?"

he replied, "i'm 7!" and without missing a beat, nods toward me & points, saying, "and she's 30!"


the guy just ducked his head & snickered. as did all of the people behind us.


*sigh*

Hahaha I mean poor you...

you can not tell me to go because you don't want me here. thats like me saying the same to you. id on't want to listen to your lies and your bullshit. and you dissin on my friends.
however
i'm not going to leave
that would show...oh how can we say it....
a weakness? i gave in? fuck that man.
ah though... i am a bit curious....
how can you tell me to leave. when your the one that intruded into here in a strance nice sense?
how grand
your a jackass!

what?

seriously - what the fuck were you trying to say?

a few things come to mind here....

1.) cutting, in itself, is not necessarily a "problem" unless and until it is used to manipulate others around the one who cuts. for many, cutting helps to relieve stress and / or to help an individual deal with a real or perceived trauma at some point in the cutter's past. granted, it is not the most socially acceptable way to cope with one's life but as michael wagner puts it - "teething infants often bite their own hand to manage pain. cutting can be thought of at that developmental level." if you're not familiar with wagner's work - look him up.

2.) since we now know that you are in the eyes of sorrow's psychiatrist / psychologist / whatever, one must wonder the ethical implications of your actions here as well as referring to her as "a very close friend". there are a few people here employed within the medical profession, myself included. this post of yours is awkward at best, inappropriate at worst.

3.) this whole drama is rather pathetic. an attention whore cuts, screams at everyone who shows concern to get away from her, begs for someone to understand her and then, of all people, has her psychistrist (?) come to a website to defend her actions? the word "manipulation" blinks rather brightly with neon lights here in my mind. how about yours?

most cutting occurs for one simple reason - that of an individual learning to cope with an unsettling event or series of events. most people are not so deep or unique to qualify a statement such as the one you made.

actually, you're the only one to pop in here and announce that you're a psychiatrist. perhaps you should display your own credentials to back up your contention. no one else pre-empted their statements using a title.

a funny thing about those in the mental health profession, much like judges and lawyers - you believe the education you've achieved and the title you hold makes you "right" no matter what you have to say. whether you wear it like a badge or utilize means more along the line of a passive-aggressive personality, mental health professionals by-and-large are not questioned by society in general, leading to an internal sense of vindication, regardless of what others think and feel.

this, i'll take exception to. you display your title as a psychiatrist, however being that this is the internet, trolling for others to write to you raises an alarm. how do i know who you are? how does anyone here? you could just as easily be a pedophile seeking out troubled youth. i'm not saying you are, but without sufficient evidence, you're no more qualified than anyone else here to pass judgement. that's the way the world works and so, i'm deleting your e-mail address.

your opinion. thanx for posting it.

'dissin on my friends'

I smell a rumble just waiting to happen.*snickers*

As we are fighting we can do goth dance moves. It can be a goth version of West Side Story.Peachy keen!!!

Yep. Also the 'picking up the dime' dance. Some Bauhaus era Peter Murphy moves will also be included.

I have seen parts of that book and it looks pretty funny.

I really don't like IM that much. Plus, my boyfriend is sleeping in the room where I am typing.I'll wake him up if I do that. ;-)

I know you are you said you are but what am I ? NAHNAHNAHNAHNAHNAH!! Let me be immature for a moment. Ahem.
Look at ME!! LOOK AT ME!! Im In the eyes of sorrow blahblahblah I have a FRIEND!! Too bad the shrink is one of the voices in my head... Im not getting any so I look at horsie porn on the internet (love that thread) Blahblah fucking blah. And yes, most of us are jackasses- its not our fault we were born that way, and I dont know about anyone else but Im a little sensitive about being a donkey so please dont call me one. I dont think that made much sense, oh well *hums annoyingly*

PS. I wish I was as gothicly tortured as sorrow..

She cant go cry to Mummy because shes pretending to care. Dont you see Santera? Sorrows parents love her... Its horrible, we should embrace her not throw her away. Where would she go? Probably papercut herself in her room, while watching Linkin Park dvds on her plasma screen tv whilst sitting on her double bed talking on the phone about how unfair life is to one of her goth friends... how cfan wee wish that upon anyone??

HAHA shes so hardcore that probably bury herself. As I said before her cuts are papercuts and she smokes freshly mown grass lol Oh this thread always makes me laugh

The same one she gouged her eyes out with... just for effect. Shed probably film it witha webcam and post the link so that we could all watch her incrediably gothicness