i have no clue what i did...
 

fuck it...
alright every girl has the one guy who they meet and think hes awesome.
well i meet mine. he was really nice and sweet to me. he asked things of me.but nothing bad and he always tould me if i didnt want to i didnt have to.
he tould me i was awesome and amazing. then after a while we had the kiss
then a while after that he tould me he loved me. and i couldnt lie i fell for him and hard then about six weeks after that i admited that i fell in love with him to, everything was perfect...he tould me he loved me everyday..hugs and cute kisses...nothing preshering..i gave him my all i never even looked at another guy. Then one weekend he asked me to call him..i called..he never answered. The the next day i got this text.
"..i have a girlfriend so i have to distance myself from you
because ive become attatched to you."
i couldnt respond..i had no idea what to say..
but i had to respond so i texted back.
"oh..."

Welcome to Gloomybunneh's neo-con utopia where lesbians don't exist.

thats not what i ment by that..gosh haha

Anyway, regarding the actual topic: he's a lying shitbag.

ah yes..im well aware.
his so called "girlfriend" that he never tould me about has been around the block more then afue times. so maybe he will cetch something.

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

yeah..then the mute button then the selfdestruct button..
i think he was defective.

Damn. That suggestion generally works on the internet.

hm. well not this time. it might just be me

1.Optimisticly, He LOVED you and don't want to hurt your feeling.

2.Pessimisticly, That's bullshit.


Either one goes for my opinion, No.2 is recommended for long-term relationship.

Obviously a dirtbag.
Even if he left his current girlfriend for you, how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing with someone else while with you. The cheating pattern indeed.

DIRTBAG!!

That sucks Gloomybunneh, but at least you're not stuck to a lying jackass.

You were played like the pawn you are.

Sorry to brake it to you sweetie, but hes a bloke. Guys are only after one thing. How foolish of you to "fall in love" with someone you clearly didnt know enough about. Relationships are huge things, difficult to hide.

Whenever he discovered that you wouldnt open your legs fast enough was only whenever he decided to come clean, probably only because he was bored and an attempt to force your creepy little obsession to die.

If he really loved you his chick would have been dropped in an instant, but he didnt, did he? Silly girl. Hes a happy man in a happy relationship, his plan just backfired.

You should have fucked him, would have gave you a fighting chance.

Men are pigs - get over it.

I agree with Ra_star. When it come to females there are lots of games men like to play and they usually never play fair.
I disagree however that you should have slept with him. If you didn't at least his little game didn't win him the only thing he wanted.

The guy is question is obviously a dickhead, but saying 'oh all men are like that' is complete bullshit. Women play stupid games, too.

We are a LOT better at it though.

Given your summary of the course of events, I would say that you didn't do anything. Or, at least, anything wrong.

You really don't know much about men, do you?

I know alot about men, particularly bored horny men in relationships, add a drop of stupidity and you have this lady's story in a nutshell.

Personally, I fucking hate chicks [apart from myself, I'm fucking awesome]. All my friends are blokes so I'm around them 24/7. When they fall in love they fall hard, they take it alot more seriously than women, as for sex, its a completely differant story.

The best response you could come up with?

I'd never have had you down as the kind of child who watches Disney films!

Let him be, Alarica.

It's not worthy.

I'd say it's just a phase you're going to have to go through because some junk-ass scumbag.
At least you now learnt how no to fall in love with everyone who tells you you're awesome, or beautiful. Which is, by the way, the very same mistake I made about three months ago. You should give less time to such things!

.....why? =]

He insulted Alarica for being a good mother who care about her child's work.

How old are you Gloomy?

'Cause that might really help shed some light on this thing.

Those kind of things -unfortunatelly- happen, you can't blame yourself for someone else's idiocity(sp?)
Because from what you wrote, you didn't do anything wrong.

You DO know that's bullshit, right? No one would dump somebody because they like them. If he HAD come to like you, you'd have gained tenure as his mistress, not the experience of being dropped from a great height.

What he wanted to say, but couldn't (in case you made trouble and the whole thing got back to his gf) is "I have to distance myself because I've become bored of you. Chicks who fall for "cute hugs and kisses" so easily are no fun - it's like shooting fish in a barrel."

Toughen up, learn from it, and don't give it away so easily next time.