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NightmareInShiningArmour 06-08-2009 10:16 PM

Dumped
 
Dumped by my girlfriend.
Yes yes, it hurts like shit, blah blah.
I'm just pissed off coz it's only been 2 months and everything was smooth sailing.
'Parrently it was the distance.
It's completely shit. :(

Just needed to take a load off and no one was to know about her. Well, in real life. :)

Pineapple_Juice 06-08-2009 11:02 PM

No one was to know about her?


Anyway, sorry about your luck. Getting dumped sucks hard-at least it wasn't 6 months or 2 years or something like that. I know some people have worked it out but generally distance is a relationship killer.

Black Inferno 06-08-2009 11:22 PM

Hey Nightmare,I can totally relate to you completely...I broke up with my gf last year which lasted coincedentally 2 month also...I agree with Pineapple,cause my reason is...Too far away...

NightmareInShiningArmour 06-08-2009 11:33 PM

For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

Underwater Ophelia 06-09-2009 03:52 AM

I really feel that there's something weird about a girl who is 19 and enjoys the company of a 14 year old boy.

dabbadmc 06-09-2009 11:12 AM

It sucks, but there's plenty more fish in the sea.

Pineapple_Juice 06-09-2009 04:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia (Post 542853)
I really feel that there's something weird about a girl who is 19 and enjoys the company of a 14 year old boy.

I was about to post almost the exact same thing. What would a 19 year old girl want with a 14 year old?

Solumina 06-09-2009 05:20 PM

Well I'm friends with people who are quite a number of years younger than I am so I can see why someone would spend time with people of a younger age group, but I do see an issue with being attracted to someone who is at an earlier stage of physical development.

gothicusmaximus 06-09-2009 07:44 PM

I'm sorry your long distance relationship with an obviously maladjusted chick didn't work out. I can totally empathize, today I found 20 dollars on the street, what a bummer.

Beneath the Shadows 06-09-2009 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pineapple_Juice (Post 542898)
I was about to post almost the exact same thing. What would a 19 year old girl want with a 14 year old?

More importantly, where were these 19 year-old girls who were into 14 year-old guys when I was 14?!

zerademark 06-10-2009 01:44 AM

Quote:

More importantly, where were these 19 year-old girls who were into 14 year-old guys when I was 14?!
In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Still Jack 06-10-2009 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by zerademark (Post 542922)
In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Where did Ophie say that a 19 y/o male and a 14 y/o female is okay? I'm beginning to not like you very much.

Beneath the Shadows 06-10-2009 04:09 AM

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Originally Posted by zerademark (Post 542922)
In the wrong America.
19 year old girl and 14 year old boy is weird, but 19 year old boy and 14 year old girl is okay? WTF???

Who the fuck said that?

JCC 06-10-2009 09:07 AM

The issue for me here isn't the age gap, but the implication that she was his girlfriend for two months, though they only met two weeks ago. You spent a month and a half with an intangible girlfriend? No wonder you didn't want people to know about her.

Malice In Wonderland 06-10-2009 09:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour (Post 542833)
For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

She dumped you because there was nothing physical.
She found a real person she could screw.
Get over it.
Get drunk and have sex.

Solumina 06-10-2009 11:12 AM

Maybe telling someone who is 14 to get drunk and have sex isn't the best advice, though the rest of your post seems pretty accurate to me.

Long distant relationships are hard enough when you already have a strong bond, Jake and I had a really hard time with it back when I took a semester off from school, since I lived on campus I couldn't stay down in Newport News if I wasn't in classes so I had to go home. We had already been together for over a year and we were only four hours apart so we still saw each other just about every other weekend but it was still a noticeable strain on both of us.

Malice In Wonderland 06-10-2009 11:26 AM

I'd say it worked for me...
But in truth it didn't.

I'll retract that part.
It can still be fun though.

Tam Li Hua 06-10-2009 12:30 PM

I have to agree with Ophie. That situation sounds supremely weird.

Seth Whisper 06-11-2009 03:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NightmareInShiningArmour (Post 542833)
For one anything physical would have been illegal seeings she's 19, I'm 14. There was a thread asking about acceptable age difference in General a while back.
Two weeks ago we met and it was insane. I think the fact that I'd spent pure days talking to her meant that we were really close. We knew a lot about each other.
We've been talking and I feel it won't change.

My situation is quite balls.

try being married for 5 years and your wife cheating on you....key words here? you are 14...

Seth Whisper 06-11-2009 03:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Forgot My Password (Post 543105)
But you're a dipshit, so I wouldn't really give out advice. Failed marriage, failed suicide attempt. You really gotta get something right before you try to make things better for other people, guy.

Wow you really are bitter aren't you? You get gang ***** by black people or something? Is that why you feel the need to go to every thread I post in and make yoruself feel better by flaming me? Good job dude...get that huge post count up by posting totally useless and irellevant crap. Also...I don't recall giving him any advice. You really do have no reading comprehension skills do you?

Seth Whisper 06-11-2009 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Forgot My Password (Post 543112)
Nope! I just like trolling people because I have no life and I'm bored. Are you having fun yet?

You aren't bothering me. You just look sad is all. Have fun! lol

Seth Whisper 06-11-2009 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password (Post 543117)
Give it time, Loser San!

Nah...don't fool yourself into thinking you matter that much. You are words on a screen nothing more nothing less. Congratulations on making me not quite so bored though.

Seth Whisper 06-11-2009 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Forgot My Password (Post 543123)
Nah...don't fool yourself into thinking you matter that much. You are words on a screen nothing more nothing less. Congratulations on making me not quite so bored though.

lol....I don't think I am important to anyone but those that matter. Good job on getting my point though. Maybe you aren't as stupid as you appear to be. lol :)

Underwater Ophelia 06-12-2009 08:32 AM

Duckie, let's kiss.

Malice In Wonderland 06-12-2009 11:28 AM

I think... That VERY possibly, this guy could turn out to be an ok member.
Or just another who Duck pushes over the edge.

Pineapple_Juice 06-12-2009 11:38 AM

Duckie doesn't antagonize random people.
What I mean is he antagonizes practically everyone, but not just anyone. I'm sure he has a reason. Maybe the people that go over the edge are already mentally unstable to begin with. He's clearing the way for more sane people to come and enjoy themselves.


He's like a weed whacker.

Malice In Wonderland 06-12-2009 11:53 AM

Hahahahaha.
I mean once the loser guy has learnt the ropes he could be ok.
I take this from his interactions with Duck.
Either way it should be fun.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Malice In Wonderland (Post 543403)
Hahahahaha.
I mean once the loser guy has learnt the ropes he could be ok.
I take this from his interactions with Duck.
Either way it should be fun.

I'm not really a loser...I'm just not so proud or arrogant as others tend to be. My sister was murdered two years ago in Tulsa, OK and I had to go clean her apartment where she was murdered. It did a number on my psyche and caused me to drift from everyone. Duck is no one but an antagonist on an internet forum...he's more like a pest than anything else. If he keeps on trying to bug me I'll just put him on ignore just like anyone else can do for me. Seriously...make a big deal out of nothing. I've faced a lot worse things than anything on here can dish out...but thanks for the vote of confidence just the same.

Duane 06-12-2009 12:49 PM

Interacting with Duck for a while is a sure fire way of becoming a better person. He has a way of bringing the best out of some people.

Malice In Wonderland 06-12-2009 02:08 PM

If you put Duck on ignore you will miss out on so much awesome around here.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Malice In Wonderland (Post 543436)
If you put Duck on ignore you will miss out on so much awesome around here.

Really? Because I have yet to see him post anything remotely intelligent. Sure he posts some things that are funny, but for the most part he just comes across as an arrogant teen ager who thinks its fun to be abusive to others on the internet. More cowardly than anything else. Don't say anything to anyone on the internet you wouldn't say to their face....if you do that makes you a coward.

Edit: of course he could be the type to say those things to you in person too, but those kind of people have short life spans from where I am from.

Malice In Wonderland 06-12-2009 02:24 PM

Duck's a pretty big guy.
And he's most certainly not a teenager.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 02:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Malice In Wonderland (Post 543447)
Duck's a pretty big guy.
And he's most certainly not a teenager.

I like big guys...its funny when they fall down. Actually I'm a big guy myself...not that it matters. Big guys bleed too.

Edit: He should stop acting like one then.

Duane 06-12-2009 02:29 PM

You're majorly butt hurt over what he said, and are now trying to... just give up, it's not working just admit that you're jealous of his obviously superior intelligence and admit that you were stupid, and make the first step towards becoming a better person.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 02:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duane (Post 543450)
You're majorly butt hurt over what he said, and are now trying to... just give up, it's not working just admit that you're jealous of his obviously superior intelligence and admit that you were stupid, and make the first step towards becoming a better person.

go suck his cock some more duane...seriously what is your fucking fascination with blowing him in every post you reply to me with?

Duane 06-12-2009 02:45 PM

You say blowing, I say showing respect. He's a really great guy, and he's helped me to become a better person, I still have a ways to go... but thanks to him, I have what it takes to be a truly great person.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 02:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duane (Post 543456)
You say blowing, I say showing respect. He's a really great guy, and he's helped me to become a better person, I still have a ways to go... but thanks to him, I have what it takes to be a truly great person.

ok so you gotta suck his cock every time you turn around? seriously have more self respect than that. if he has helped you become a better person great for the two of you...but he hasnt shown me shit and every post I have seen by him so far under both his names bares little resemblance to anything productive. respect is earned and he hasn't earned mine yet....he almost did but resorted to more douchbaggery. you look like a little lost puppy following around licking his nuts every time he stops to poop on someone. want me to stop talking shit? stop giving me ammo.

Duane 06-12-2009 02:58 PM

Dude, you need to stop trying so hard.

Malice In Wonderland 06-12-2009 03:07 PM

Yeah dude...
Playing the Internet hardman act after posting some whiny emo bullshit is not only pathetic... It's frikkin' hilarious.

You're new here.
Chill out and you might last.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Malice In Wonderland (Post 543461)
Yeah dude...
Playing the Internet hardman act after posting some whiny emo bullshit is not only pathetic... It's frikkin' hilarious.

You're new here.
Chill out and you might last.

I doubt it...me attention span is pretty short. I give it another day at most before you people bore the shit out of me and I find something else to occupy my mind. You act like its a privledge to be here....it isn't.

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 03:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duane (Post 543460)
Dude, you need to stop trying so hard.

who the fuck is trying anything? i didnt realize it was a crime being myself. sorry if you dont like it or if you think im being fake...im not. i'm the same the world over...i dont need to impress anybody, certainly not a bunch of assholes on a website. again...this is entertainment here to occupy my brain....get it through your thick skull and build a fucking bridge already!

Duane 06-12-2009 03:56 PM

Talk about a lost cause...

Seth Whisper 06-12-2009 04:01 PM

if you want me to shut the fuck up with this kind of shit...try talking to me like im a human fucking being instead of a piece of trash cuz i gotta tell you....some of you guys really come across to me like massive pieces of human excrement....seriously don't you have anything better to do than pick apart everyone that comes on here? Seriously look at the intro board....everyone who comes here gets put under a microscope like the approval of the pack is essential to life. I could give a flying fuck if any of you like me...you are nothing more than a way for me to blow off steam. If you want to get to know me, we can talk but the way some of you choose to present yourselves just wreaks of massive self importance. I know my place in life....do any of you who waste all your time degrading others really have a clue what your place in life is? I doubt it...seriously. If you did you wouldn't waste it trying to find something cute or funny or degrading to say to me so you feel better about yourself. I give what I get...give me shit and you're gonna get it in turn. Why should I put myself out there to people who won't do the same?


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