My parents are separating.
 

I was just told that my mom and stepdad are probably going to get a divorce. As of ten minutes ago my stepdad moved out. I don't really know what's certain anymore or what to do.

That positively sucks. Try avoiding being alone unless you absolutely need to. Go to the closest person to you that isn't a parent and just talk to them. Doesn't even have to be about this, just talk. Don't put yourself in a situation where you're going to feel alone. Just try to keep your chin up.

How long were they married? Could you tell their relationship was in trouble or was it a shock to you? Do you side with your mother? How close were you to your step-dad? Sorry to hear you are having to endure it.

Yeah, my sister's here with me so I'm not alone. I could tell they were having problems but they seemed so trivial at the time. They were married for almost twelve years, but I didn't really ever get close to my stepdad, so you could say I side with my mom. Thanks for the concern guys, it means a lot to me even though I don't know you. I just feel kind of confused. My stepdad gave us this long speech about what pushed him over the edge to finally move out, and none of it was pretty. I don't ever think I heard so much cursing in my life.

When my parents split up it was a surprise. When I was 17 I heard yelling one night upstairs, ran up to their bedroom to find my dad yelling at mom, and when he saw me he shut up and ran out of the house, and the next day moved out.

Mother told me later they had problems for years but refused to fight in front of us kids, and stayed together for us. But they both became a lot happier after the divorce.

So I feel for what you are going through. :hugs:

I think my parents will be happier too, now that I think about it. I feel bad for everyone who went through this so your hug has been taken and multiplied to all of gnet.

Porn heals everything.

You make me angry.

You're disgusting. Her mom and stepdad are splitting up and you go off talking about porn. I pity you.

@ Erotica: I'm so sorry about your situation. I hope you feel better.

Thanks, and I'm actually already better than the crying mess I was earlier. I feel like my parents will be better without each other and am currently packing up my crap into totes, just in case we have to move fast.

I'm glad you're feeling better. :)

Holy fuck.
Shade came in here saying his boyfriend died and he fucking asked if that meant they were together.
Megeara comes in here because her parents are separating and he fucking comes in here telling her that porn will heal it.
Worthless piece of shit.

I'm sorry to hear that, Megeara. Glad you're feeling better!

Shit gives the best advice. It knows that in the end, you just sit there stinking as pests eat you and shit you out.

Dude, being an edgy jerk on the internet is not cool in any way, shape, manner, or form.

It has been fucking done to death.

No one is impressed by your uninspired in-your-face attitude.

You haven't heard me talk about religion or the christian right then.

One of his sentences was actually:

"Your goddamned mother is such an fucking, cunt-licking whore who needs to go to hell, leave me the fuck alone.

Multiply that into a whole ten minute rant and you have my stepdad's reasons for leaving my mom.

Sounds exactly like my dad. Except he never left.
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*hugs*

Aww, now I feel bad for you. Hugs to you too.

Eh, I don't really care. This was going on what... 6 years ago?
You shouldn't feel bad, you're going through this stuff now. *hugs*

I'm edgy? More liquid, I think.

I've begun crying again. I have a horrible crying face.

For what it's worth, I'm hoping something good comes out of what you're dealing with. Things will get better.

Why are you crying over someone who talked about your mother like that?

Ouch, razor-sharp wit you've got there, Albert Mond. Everytime you post, you are contributing an image in my mind of some sad old pervert that joins about fifty Internet forums and spends the rest of his time thinking of stupid shit to say to people on the said forums and watching porn because he doesn't have any real friends.

MegearaErotica, I hope you'll be all right and I wish I could do something. I have a friend whose mother has had three equally traumatic relationships and consequent break-ups, it does suck. Just remember to keep on living through it I guess.

It's pretty bad. I'm sorry to hear that.
How is your mom ?




You sound like Oprah.


"Are you happy ?"
"How's that make you feel ?" Blah blah blah... etc.. etc.. etc...