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Despanan 07-13-2009 09:02 AM

SHould we change it to "ugly Frenchman?"
 
Apparently, Americans are not the worst tourists in the world.

Beneath the Shadows 07-13-2009 10:03 AM

Of course there's not. They're the second best.

The French already are the worst.

Saya 07-13-2009 02:09 PM

My roommate worked at a hotel last summer and would complain that French people never tip. But I have another friend who speaks French fluently, and worked in a tourist information center, French tourists loved her and apparently would come back bearing gifts sometimes rather than tipping (she got a big basket of strawberries one year for being such a help). In general though I really try not to be judgmental of tourists unless they're really out of line, its better to keep in mind, especially with the ones who don't speak much English, that they're in a weird country with totally different customs, they're probably stressed out enough without me giving them a hard time.

Renatus 07-13-2009 08:16 PM

I saw an interesting abc report a while back that showed that even french people think french people make terrible tourists.

Still Jack 07-14-2009 02:24 AM

The French really tend to appreciate people talking French to them.

Despanan 07-14-2009 07:11 AM

I think I read some poll that said the French actually hate the French more than any other country.

Godslayer Jillian 07-14-2009 12:52 PM

Sociologically speaking, French people have grown to become very isolated from one another. You wouldn't see a stranger smiling, least of all talking, to another complete stranger. Also, Parisians consider themselves more French than other people, with Sorbonne students feeling sorry for any student that doesn't study in Paris as if it's a kind of failure. The southern French also feel they have little in common with the northern French, marking a difference that resembles the United Kingdom more than the United States.
I see it plausible that French people dislike other French people more than other countries, but maybe it depends on how you see it. The ones from Brittany have their own sense of identity, the Languedoc never much considered themselves French, and some people in Aquitaine might have more in common with the Basque. Probably that's what the thing you read meant.

CptSternn 07-22-2009 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Saya (Post 547128)
My roommate worked at a hotel last summer and would complain that French people never tip. But I have another friend who speaks French fluently, and worked in a tourist information center, French tourists loved her and apparently would come back bearing gifts sometimes rather than tipping (she got a big basket of strawberries one year for being such a help). In general though I really try not to be judgmental of tourists unless they're really out of line, its better to keep in mind, especially with the ones who don't speak much English, that they're in a weird country with totally different customs, they're probably stressed out enough without me giving them a hard time.

No one outside of America/Canada tips. Tipping is a North American thing. In Europe, people who work as bartenders or wait staff get above minimum wage, so there is no reason to tip them.

For those who do not know, in America and Canada bartenders and wait staff get LESS than HALF minimum wage, as tips are considered part of their wages, so tipping is normal.

I think the laws should be changed though. As a person who worked (and owned) bars/nightclubs/pubs I can tell you that you don't always make enough to match minimum wage, much less enough to make a living on if you depend on the kindness of others to make a living.

Romantic Raven 07-22-2009 04:02 AM

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Originally Posted by CptSternn (Post 548205)
No one outside of America/Canada tips. Tipping is a North American thing. In Europe, people who work as bartenders or wait staff get above minimum wage, so there is no reason to tip them.

Not true. People also tip in Europe; I know for a fact that this happens at least in Romania and the UK, but I believe it is customary in other countries as well.

CptSternn 07-22-2009 04:16 AM

Having lived in the UK for many years I can tell you it doesn't. Sometimes tourists *might* tip, but regulars NEVER tip. It is by no means customary, and as I currently live in Ireland, I can tell you it doesn't happen here either.

Saya 07-22-2009 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by CptSternn (Post 548205)
For those who do not know, in America and Canada bartenders and wait staff get LESS than HALF minimum wage, as tips are considered part of their wages, so tipping is normal.

Not the case everywhere in Canada, we don't have that at all in Newfoundland. We make minimum wage no matter what, plus tips, and we don't have to share tips either. It usually always is minimum wage, though.

Romantic Raven 07-22-2009 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by CptSternn (Post 548225)
Having lived in the UK for many years I can tell you it doesn't. Sometimes tourists *might* tip, but regulars NEVER tip. It is by no means customary, and as I currently live in Ireland, I can tell you it doesn't happen here either.

If you say so, then mea culpa. I knew it was customary to tip in England, but maybe you're right, maybe it was because we were tourists. However, as far as my country is concerned, it is almost always considered rude not to tip.

Konstantin 07-22-2009 10:03 AM

I think it's a little bizarre when people don't tip. It's certainly customary in North America, but it's also the cultural norm in Russia. If you can't afford to tip, then you can't afford the restaurant.


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