I ruined his life
 

I told everyone my now ex best friend's secrets out of anger.
I was mad about the fact that he'd had sex with me, and then stopped talking to me.
But, that's no exscuse. I ruined his life.
I feel awful for what I did.
He was my best friend, and the first person to care about me..

Learn a lesson, apologize, move on. :)

I apoligized, he wont accept it. I don't blame him.

Oh Christ, move on. It's his problem and his own stupid fault.

Oh durrr I will tell this girl all my secrets and then hit it and quit it, there can be no negative consequences to any of this.

The fact you still believe he cares about you makes the whole thing even sadder.

That's the stupidest shit you could ever say.


What I want to know is how you can ruin someone's life with gossip. What magnitude of secrets did you say that you think his life is over? Are you being a drama queen or is this for real?

Actually, I'm with him. ^

In any case, I can virtually guarantee that none of this shit will matter to you after high school, and will become drastically less of a big deal long before that (provided you had the sense to use protection, of course).

Foster, to hell with him. He screwed you then just scrammed? Maybe you still have some feelings for him, for caring??? Coz, if he does care for you he won't do that and someone doing that to you doesnt deserve it. Unless, you both had an understanding that the fucking part has no emotions/commitments attached...

How big a secret is it? Did he kill someone? Blow up a public building?

You're nothing but a traitor.

Ruined life... REMEMBER WHAT TUPAC SAID???? LIFE GOES ON!!!!!!!!

Tupac has all the answers. In his song TITLES--you don't even need to reach the lyrics.

What exactly were his secrets? I mean if they weren't embarrassing I'm sure he'd come around sooner or later. He made the mistake of sleeping with you then avoiding you, you made the mistake of revealing his secrets thinking that it would actually do any good. If he doesn't come around then it was never meant to happen.

Duuuuuude this is from a year ago.

As long as it's an open discussion I feel that I have good reason to post on it.

However, I will keep a look out for that next time.

I bring it up not because I'm anal about thread necros (really as long as you have something relevant to say, I don't care), but because the OP is long gone and likely not to come back, or at least has probably come to some sort of conclusion with the problem.