Engadgement update
 

Well when you get some time to think things through.. Well you begin to understand things more. I am only 16, I have plenty of time to tie myself down, but now is not the time. I realized now that I am not inlove with Dan, but inlove with the thought of being inlove with him. It's all just lust!! Grrr... But now how do I break the news to him? I don't want to go to the hostpital again...

I would say it to him like you just said it. He might not understand right away, but it'll be worth it to tell him anyway. If he cares about you, then he'll understand and not give you a hard time. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!!!

Tell him that you love him, but you're not ready to make that kind of commitment. You're too young, it's too soon, you still have years ahead of you before you will even find yourself responsible enough to take on such a commitment. At least you two have each other and obviously care much about one another, that is something many people don't have. Appreciate it.