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Rabbit 11-11-2005 01:12 AM

Bullies and Homosexuals
 
I hate bullies. We all know that the bully likes to put on his sister's skirt and highheels when she is not around. Why do bullies bully? Are they really suppressing their homosexual urges by bulling the weak? Are they confused about their homosexuality?

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Mor_Rioghain 11-11-2005 01:46 AM

noobs and unintelligence
 
I hate noobs. We all know that the noob likes to put up new threads under his sisters username when she is not around. Why do noobs post in the wrong place? Are they really suppressing their unintelligent urges by posting wrong on good boards? Are they confused about their unintelligence?


but now seriously i think this is more like a thread for the whining section.

Demonista_Ravenesque 11-11-2005 02:34 AM

This should go in the Whining section, but Rabbit does have a point.

Bullying is the product of insecurity, picking on others just to make themselves feel better.

But insecurities about sexuality are bound to come out in a different form in my opinion.

edible_eye 11-11-2005 03:30 AM

hi, demon.

spookypurple 11-11-2005 10:05 AM

They often present as an opposite form of the actual insecurity. Like in the line "Methinks the lady doth protest too much."

AlKilyu 11-11-2005 11:49 AM

I know who rabbit is now...pretty sure he's the guy whose real address we got the last time he came here...I'm gonna look for that and see if they are one and the same.

AlKilyu 11-11-2005 12:14 PM

I'll tell you off of here...but yeah it's him...

TheKorovaMilkbar 11-11-2005 01:06 PM

I don't believe it really has anything to do with sexuality. I think it's psychologically linked to whether or not mom and dad gave them enough attention, or who else might have picked on the bully to cause him to bully people smaller than him. Usually it's a parental figure, but it just as easily could be an older brother or other bully from that persons youth.

They might have insecurities about their sexuality too, but I don't think they're linked.

And Al, I would like to chat with you about something. How can I contact you?

AlKilyu 11-11-2005 01:13 PM

al_kilyu@**********

TheKorovaMilkbar 11-11-2005 01:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AlKilyu

Message sent

spookypurple 11-11-2005 02:42 PM

Power.

That's one of the keys.

To have power.

AlKilyu 11-11-2005 03:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheKorovaMilkbar
Message sent


My yahoo is being a broken dick bitch at the moment, so here

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flawed-mentality 11-11-2005 05:01 PM

Clockwork Orange nice,bullys do what they do because of there own insecuritys.They sidetrack there minds by picking on those weaker then themselves.Sometimes they hate themselves and they see someone who reminds them of themselves they unleash hell on the poor guy.The last reason bullys pick on the weak is not to many people look out for them. they can't protect themselves and nobody will come to there aid.bullys know they have a free target.So as long as people watch and do nothing,bullys will be there.Then again this is what iv'e gathered from my observations.It is the duty of the strong to protect the weak.

edible_eye 11-11-2005 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Santarea
Fuck that noise. I used to buy into that. But you end up assisting the weak into learned helplessness. Then you have a problem.

I'll have the back of anyone that is willing to actually stand up for themselves. If they don't respect themselves enough to do it- why should I?

Oh, sure, it may seem "right", but not in the long term. I don't lik ehelping to create another career victim.

i think i HAVE TO have sex with you.

a lot.

flawed-mentality 11-11-2005 06:28 PM

I see what you mean.There is more then one way to help the weak.I used to be a passifist so my budys took the protection job.That wasn't long term .They tought me to defend myself.differnt methods of fighting.They tought me to defend myself verbaly. They defend me wile they were preparing me. In turn I have tought differnt people what I have learned.Verbaly iv'e defended people as a result I don't have to constently run to the aid of my friends ,and they don't have to run to my aid.They don't always win but they go down in a way that makes bullys think twice.

flawed-mentality 11-11-2005 06:30 PM

By the way don't try passifism it dosn't work.

ThwanCondu 11-11-2005 06:51 PM

Wow. This is pretty homophobic, and not even in a funny way. Good job, n00b. You're offending people.

flawed-mentality 11-11-2005 07:08 PM

I see said the blind man.

edible_eye 11-11-2005 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Santarea
Damn, E_E, be gentle.

i'll be gentle at first. i promise.

after a little while, though - all bets (and self-restraint) are off.

Demonista_Ravenesque 11-11-2005 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by edible_eye
hi, demon.

*waves* Hi Edible, but 'nough with my threadjacking. Rabbit does have a point about insecurity in this but he should've used different words for it...And perhaps he should've been a little less ignorant.

Gay = Insecure

That equation there is not necessarily true, although many young homosexuals are a bit insecure about coming out, or their body image...there's many who are proud of who they are.


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