I've given only a few.
http://www.cyberdog.net/tradingstation/index.html
is a very expensive european site but they have awsome stuff.
http://d.webring.com/hub?ring=gothgoddess
webring with online clothing shops
http://www.morgeve.dk/clothing.html
used to have make-up tips for chicks and dudes but now it's a online shop
http://www.ice-princess.net/Academia...e%20Budgetgoth
has some good information for starting out
http://www.cryoflesh.com/index.html
some good stuff
http://www.thedarkangel.co.uk/
most of the good stuff is from europe and so is expensive, your best bet is to find Candian sites like plastikwrap and australian sites that are such a bitch to find.
Sorry about giving so many links, not sure if that's allowed but they are very good sites.