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Old 07-05-2007, 07:45 PM   #140
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heretoday, you needn't have sexual relationships at the tender age of sixteen if you're not comfortable with it. I know girls who would never have sex with their boyfriend in their teens but in their twenties felt differently. Thinking back to my high school days, their boyfriends were the horniest of teenage boys but they respected their girlfriends decision to wait. By the time you're thirty, your attitude towards sex will most likely have naturally evolved. There are a small percentage of the population who are "asexual" that you can look up if it dosen't..... I personally don't understand why anyone wouldn't like sex.... Even if you don't feel "horny" for it, it's so nice to be that close to someone. (It can also be quite entertaining to observe the facial expressions a person makes whilst in the throes of passion.) Wait until you find someone you feel comfortable with, someone you don't feel submissive to.... Wait until you have a relationship where you feel like you're both on equal footing. Maybe look for someone less experienced than yourself? Many men are turned on by a woman who's the dominant one in the bedroom, in time you'll get to know what works for you sexually and you can just jump in and take the lead.
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