[Minyaliel]

*ignores the duck*

You should never use wax to keep a 'hawk up, it's far too heavy and will only flop down again (believe me, I've tried). Hair spray's probably the best thing you can put on it. The standard recommendation would be Aquanet; however, failing to get that, any cheap hair spray will do as long as you tease/ backcomb your hair properly first.