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Ach, let your parents help.... The bigger your support system, the better your lives will be... I'm 27 and I'd be lost without the help of my parent's, and my babies father's parents. Whether it is with babysitting, housework, or the occasional utility payments. If you have family that is willing and able to help you, the baby will be better off if you let them take off some of these stresses.
Shit, this thread got a lot less sexy and a lot more serious.
Maturity about sex varies by individual, age isn't so much of a factor.... I know some fifty year olds that are a lot less mature about sex then some fourteen year olds are.
In a junior high health class, the teacher gave us this test:
"Close your eyes.... Imagine you're having a conversation with the person you'd consider having sex with... Now, imagine you're both completely naked." (Half the class burst into laughter....) "If you laughed, you're not ready to have sex."
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