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I agree--it takes a certain amount of strength, in some cases, to admit that you would want to relinquish control--not for all cases, but for some. That is what gives you the high, going against the societal taboo of what is strong and what is weak...
Hun-- i think Lapin was talking about non BDSMers--people who were on the outside who don't understand the power exchange...
I am sure Lilith will concur that most Dom/Domme/sub relationships respect the gift that a pet gives to them in that rgeard...
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