I've been called "Pet" so many times by so many people, and I've never been offended, but this same person claimed I should be.
I've always felt like I was the stronger one in the relationship. My partners always needed me much more than I needed them. They needed me to be there as their sounding board, their assurer, their , well, their beloved pet.
It was a bit of a mindscrew to be told that I was in fact the needy weak one. (laughs)
EDIT: Actually Ms. Rae, the person speaking is a dominant, and very into BDSM. I think they are still learning the "rules", so to speak, though.
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