I know--because a need for control generally stems from fear whereas reliquishing control can be, fearless -- depends on the people and the situation.
Most Dom's probably don't like one another though--LOL...all the strong personalities coming to a head...I love to watch their power struggle though...beautiful thing to behold...
Next time the so called Dom starts that BS tell him that it is about a power exchange--he needs his pet as much s you need a master...
It is cyclic respectful thing--there are weak subs sure--but there are also weak masters--weak masters see the need to dominate out of fear and not a true power exchange--I ran into those assholes and I can't stand them...lol...
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