'We are all artists of our lives. Create.'
Kontan, that quote rules.
You're right Dax, I am in a way looking for guidance, I always put myself down and I'm holding myself back from being who I really am. I will try and have more confidence so I can show the real me. Looking back, my post seems really childish and desperate, so sorry if I annoyed anyone. I'm glad all of the feedback said that it's not about how you look to conform but it's just looking however the hell you want so your personality can come through. I should just not give a damn.
My old friend did the whole stereotypical goth thing and would associate depression and self harm etc with being goth; she really was a bad example for me.