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I agree with everything everyone has posted.
Nobody, anywhere at any time, has the right to treat you like shit. Would you want a friend, sibling or cousin to be treated like this? I bet you wouldn't, so why put up with it yourself?
I'm betting that you and this guy once had some good times together. That is what I'm also betting is keeping you going back. You are in love with the memory of him, not the current person he is. Don't play the "If I only act this way he will change and be the guy I want him to be" game. It will be a game you loose. It sounds like you've lost it too many times before.
I'm sure you've heard this before, but you are still young. There is plenty of time to be in a relationship. Don't let anyone tell you that if you are not in one there must be something wrong with you. Have a boyfriend/girlfriend does not define you as a person. It is the actions of your life that define you.
I just hope that you find the strength inside yourself to make a clean break from this asshole. Be strong!!!!
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