Oh dear....
That is a pity, as it sounds like you've tried to be very helpful, and more enlightened about the situation than most. The 'no alcohol in the house' rule really doesn't seem so bad, I don't see why she'd feel the need to smuggle something in. If she's living with you, given that she's an adult legally old enough to live on her own, then she should respect your rules just as she'd have to respect any no-smoking or no-pets rules given by a landlord.
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The noblest sentiment I have encountered and the most passionate political statement to stir my heart both belong to a fictional character. Why do we have no politicians as pure in their intent and determinedly joyous in their outlook as Arkady Bogdanov of Red Mars?
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