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Old 01-27-2008, 11:08 AM   #4979
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Originally Posted by BlkGothGrl
I don't intend to sound mean, but why do you want to remain friends with someone who doesn't respect you enough to do her share in your relationship? Does she listen to you when you voice your opinions, and *care* enough about you to try to work on things?

Friendships should be mutually beneficial.............
She really isn't always a bad person and she does try when I bring something up, but things just go back to normal a few days later. I guess that I feel bad for her because I have seen her go through a lot of heartbreak and I feel like I should be there for her. I know that it isn't a healthy relationship and I need to stop forming such close binds with people who cause so much stress and drama. To be honest I really don't care that much about loosing her as a friend but we do have a great deal of mutual friends and I wouldn't want things to be so bad between us that things would be awkward being around each other a lot
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