Trust
I think people are flawed because they trust other people too much. Talking to a gothic a long time ago, they said that Everyone thinks that gothics are totally awesome and everyone loves gothics.
Fact is, there are people out there who just want to beat the crap out of gothics. There are also people who just lust gothics but don't really care about what is best for them.
To a lot of people you are only an object and that includes, "Goths." You can't just trust everyone, because you don't know what they want from you. A lot of people just want to use gothics.
Back in the day, Goths all carried knives to protect their virtue and them selves. I know plenty of guys that were harassed by men, saying they were gay. They had to defend themselves. There are also women that have been date ***** and other because all the guy really wanted was sex.
Stop trusting people so damn much. They'll probably say you had sex with them or you were a whimp and got bloodied, but at least you know what happened and can protect your dignity.
This is something to really think about. I'm really tired of all the boo who stories about someone doing something.
Personally, I have an aweful reputation, but I know who I have and have not slept with. I also know my friends and maybe it seems weak sometimes relying on people who have earned my trust. It is still way better than the alternatives.
Stop being morons and trusting people who don't deserve it. Otherwise, you'll end up on the street, a hooker or dead. Got it!!!
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