I have to agree with BadTeccy about the Church thing. I wouldn't ever have sex in a church or temple - even if I don't agree with that religion, I'm not going to disrespect people like that.
Sinless - when it comes to having bad sex, have you looked at outside reasons that may be effecting your libido? Have you been sleeping well, eating well, is the relationship ok, are the two of you communicating or is there an underlying tension about something?
Personally, I've found that when sex gets bad it is usually because of something that has nothing to do with sex. I've also found that a good way to get past a slump in your sex life is to stop having it for a while. There are many other ways that you can exercise your sexuality without having intercourse. I've been celibate for over three years now and am really enjoying it. My girlfriend doesn't enjoy it so much, though.
Duane - you will get there. Why bother with the rush tohave meaningless sex with someone you don't love when you can wait to have something amazing with the love of your life?
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