Hey I'm new to this site and thought I'd say hi. I was like you to a mainstream follower only listening to the current top ten, but my friend introduced me to music like Lacuna coil and Opeth and I fell in love. I always liked the goth look the darkness of it, but was always to afraid to show it till two yrs ago, I wouldn't say I'm a complete individual as I don't believe you can be that in this world. But I like what i like.