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Originally Posted by honeythorn
Perhaps you should date just one person like most people do. Do they know about eachother? Are they comfortable with it if they do? Do you not think it dishonest and sly to date two people at the same time?
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I had a problem with that.
But my patience pulled through I guess.
My advice is don't get involved in those types of relationships.
If the person or you cannot not give up the other person to be with you because you are uncomfortable with that type of relationship - leave the relationship.
Honeythorn, I agree with you whole with your last question, unless they know about each other.
Regardless, I think dating two people at one allows the dater to escape the general responsibilities of a mono relationship.
Like say you got into a fight with one of the people your dating, you could just go off to the other person not thinking about the fight at all and wondering if you hurt the other person or if you were wrong in it.
I think dating two people just gives the dater more freedom without truly understanding what it means to love a person.
They would just have another person to go to that made up all the other qualities the other person they were dating lacked.
Plus, poly is just not my bag.
Wow, that was long.