I wish I could contribute more to this thread, but sadly it won't fit with the flow of the post.
I also want to just let this go, but I don't want my reputation being poisoned either. It makes life more annoying than it should be. So I ought to clear up a misconception:
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Originally Posted by Miss Cogs
How dare you call my art smut!
How dare you.
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I had never told her that her work was pornographic. I respectfully expressed to her that I was uncomfortable with the picture she posted online, because I couldn't even tell she was wearing anything. She reacted negatively and it became an argument, and eventually she was saying that I was calling it porn.
While I deserve this to be known, I will still admit to being old-fashioned and not appreciating people looking at what appears to be my naked girlfriend - artistically, dirtily - I think I'd be cool with medically.
Try an experiment yourself. Ask any dude on the street if you can see almost nude pictures of his girlfriend, and see if he doesn't sock you in the eye.
It doesn't really work.
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Originally Posted by Ophelia
He doesn't want people to look at you sexually.
So that isn't why, it's because he's selfish and insecure.
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I need to rectify this.
I understand and accept that people will look at her sexually. She's very beautiful, and it is unavoidable. That's life, and that's cool.
Now that'll happen out in real life, but the pictures were a step too far.
I mean I'd have appreciated even being asked for my opinion before they were posted.
Although you do have a point, that if I'm so uptight, she might consider leaving. Perhaps she needs someone more liberal, and I need someone less loose.
Now that I've squashed out every reason to continue this debate into our personal affairs, I'll ask that everyone lay off it. Mind your own business, hit the road.