[Tam Li Hua]

Originally Posted by MollyMac

How do you determine what the average number of males in the population does with their emotions- was there a Gallup poll I missed?

But what is healthy? Crying and talking it out like women do? Aggresison is not an unhealthy thing, you know. Nor id always letting it out a la1 Oprah necessarially a healthy method, either. Why not let all emotional reaction sbe considered situational and then proper to those expessing them and to those who are on the receiving end- and not just your dictates?

I don't understand why this is upsetting you; I'm not saying this to stereotype anyone, or say that ALL guys are like this. :/

Emotions are not bad. Expressing them is not bad. But expressing them in a way that can cause harm to others or oneself in a serious way IS bad. [i. e., abusing spouses, hurting children, r@pe, going on a murderous rampage, etc.]