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Originally Posted by LetheanBlacklight
Because there are those who are just doomed to be alone, no matter how awsome they or their life may be.
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I guess I should have expected that one to go over some heads.
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My so called "best friend" yesterday called me a whore and told me i was pretty much an awful person for currently being polyamourous (I'm not a huge slut or anything... i do like to get to know people before i sleep with them for the most part, I just tend to like a little freedom in a relationship and it's working really well for me right now.) I also am seeing a guy who's wonderful and awesome, someone i'd totally say enriches my life and supports me and with whom I have a healthy and trusting relationship going on, and he happens to work in the sex industry. My "best friend" said things so cruel about him that I won't even repeat them because they make me heartsick and sad to think that ANYONE would say them at any time.
and then my "best friend" expects me to just forget he said these things and go to brunch with him tomarrow like usual, because he's done fighting and over it.
I'm sorry, but there are some things that once said, can't be unsaid. I don't require he agree or support a lifestyle he's just not into. But if he's gonna be my friend he's gotta accept me for who I am. If i was unhappy or doing things that were dangerous, i could see his cause for concern. But I'm happier than I've been in months, and I'm not doing anything that's putting myself at risk.
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I think your friend wants to bone you.