[Tam Li Hua]

I just want a small, simple wedding, but I feel like everyone else in my life is trying to make it this big, complicated thing. :/

I don't want to meet a bunch of cousins, aunts, and uncles this weekend. I just want to go visit my dad and my sister, and that's it; I haven't been close to my cousins in years, and while I'm sure they'd be excited, I don't want to have a bunch of extended relatives that I rarely even see at my wedding. >_<

I don't -want- two cakes. I want one cake. It's easy and simple that way. I don't want flower girls or bride's maids or a billion folks going down the aisle before me. I don't want it to be in a church sanctuary. I want it to be outside. I don't want a band, or to see my mom's ghost [though if such things exist, she's more than welcome to be there], I don't want a bunch of insanity.

I just want my husband. I want a small, sweet, easy, simple ceremony, AND I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO BE F'CKING OFFENDED BECAUSE I DIDN'T INVITE THEM!!!! >_______<

If I was super-rich, I swear I'd just hire a wedding planner. :P

Stupid wedding..

[Note: Yes, I know I could just go to the courthouse, but I don't want that either. I want a religious wedding, and I -do- want -some- people there...but I also don't want folks to take my wedding and turn it into a complete fiasco.]