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Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
Ms. Moth: That's a beautiful analogy, and I believe you're right; when one spends time around kids, you realize how awesome they can be. 
I think that any of us who don't have kids are a bit terrified by the idea of having them, but that one's attitude probably changes a bit once one has a little one of their own. [Or, at least that's what I've heard. :P]
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See, that's what I hate !!! That patronising attitude that once you have some you'll like them
. Well sorry but I detest them now, and always have done since I was a child. I never liked or was interested in babies or anything of that nature. The idea of having a child ( i:e giving birth and looking after said child ) is not repulsive to me, the child itself is.
It's not like I haven't spent time around them either. I have two older brothers , one has 4 kids the other has 3 . I can only bear to be in the same room as them when they are around...8 years old and upwards before that I simply stay out of the rooms they are in when they are brought round here. They are NOT awesome in any way shape or form to me. They are not cute or endearing, or adorable or sweet. I am not amused by babies throwing up or toddlers having a shitfit. They are utterly abhorrent.
I've already made doubly sure all my oldest friends know that, when they have children, I WILL NOT babysit under
any circumstances, nor shall I be referred to as "auntie Claire" I didn't allow it for my brothers and I won't for them either.