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Tam Li Hua · 09-19-2008, 09:46 AM

Deadman: I think that you need to listen to HumanePain on this; he's got a good head on his shoulders, -and- a good heart.

It took me until the age of 29 to find the right guy, and it wasn't for a lack of trying! I needed a guy who would be willing to stand up for me, but who would also be willing to relate to me...someone who wasn't just physically attractive or good in bed, but someone who could also be my best friend.

But, before that, I had to work on myself. [Honestly, 3 years ago, I was a mess and in NO condition for a serious relationship!] Maybe it would be good to take a step back from critiquing the women you've been going out with, and take an honest look at yourself, and see if there's anything you need to change about YOU before you worry about anyone else.

Also, if you're the religious type, you could start praying and asking for help in this area. [Hey, it worked out for me and my guy; we fit each other miraculously well, and we're both amazed by it every day. ^_^]

09-19-2008, 09:46 AM	#29
Tam Li Hua Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Heaven and Earth Posts: 2,606 Blog Entries: 25	Deadman: I think that you need to listen to HumanePain on this; he's got a good head on his shoulders, -and- a good heart. It took me until the age of 29 to find the right guy, and it wasn't for a lack of trying! I needed a guy who would be willing to stand up for me, but who would also be willing to relate to me...someone who wasn't just physically attractive or good in bed, but someone who could also be my best friend. But, before that, I had to work on myself. [Honestly, 3 years ago, I was a mess and in NO condition for a serious relationship!] Maybe it would be good to take a step back from critiquing the women you've been going out with, and take an honest look at yourself, and see if there's anything you need to change about YOU before you worry about anyone else. Also, if you're the religious type, you could start praying and asking for help in this area. [Hey, it worked out for me and my guy; we fit each other miraculously well, and we're both amazed by it every day. ^_^] __________________ "Follow your bliss..."