I've tried refusing to do things, but he gets really angry and yells and throws things and slams doors and curses so much that I usually end up crying and doing it so he'll stop being an ass. I know I'm not helping the situation at all by doing that, but I can't help myself for some reason. He refuses to go to marriage counseling, but I'm currently trying to get my insurance to cover me going somewhere by myself.
God, I SWORE I would never remarry after my second divorce. I should have kept to that.
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Hate is never without reason...love is never without treason. - Kovenant
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