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Old 09-22-2008, 12:31 PM   #15
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A lot of the time psychologist are so sure that they have raised their child perfectly that they overlook any red flags.

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Originally Posted by chelseagirl
Well, he's never hit me before, and I really don't think he would, he just yells and curses and calls me names mostly.
How long have you two been married? Very few guys start of by punching their wife, most of the time it starts with yelling, progressed to throwing stuff and slamming doors, then punching walls/doors, and after years of intimidating behavior the actions slowly turn their focus directly to the spouse and the hitting/beating/whatever begins. You know him better than I do so if you are sure he wont raise a hand at you then that is your call, I'm just very concerned.
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