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Originally Posted by Deadmanwalking_05
The reason he wants a kid with you is so he can have leverage,and it would be harder for you to leave.
Just take care and be safe.
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Holy crap, this never occurred to me, but I think you may be right! I'm not sure that I even ever wants kids anyway, but definitely not for many years.
Well, he helped me do one thing last night. One of his damn problems is that he can't drag himself away from looking at porn on the computer long enough to do anything. He fed the dogs for me and put some boxes in the attic, but that's all I could get him away from the computer to do.
Something really needs to change. I really wanted to have a serious talk with him last night-but then that band ended up showing up early, so I couldn't
He knows he's a jerk. He tells me all the time that he doesn't know why I stay with him, and he's told his parents that I'm a "saint" for putting up with him.
I truly believe that he has some sort of mental disorder that causes him to act that way. If he's not being mean and sexist, then he's being sickenly sweet, telling me I'm the best wife in the world and how much he loves me. It's like he has two distinctly different personalities. Could that be bi-polar disorder?